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soulja_liv20
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My friend's husband is in the Army. He is deployed in Afghanistan and since he has been there he has been cheating on my friend with a female soldier in his unit. This is not the first time he has cheated on her while deployed, but this time it is with someone different. The girl called my friend on her husband's phone and insulted her. She told her that her husband was going to be with her and that they wanted her out of their housing when they got back. My friend finally got in touch with her husband and he admitted the affair, but said that he thought that the girl just wanted to talk to my friend woman to woman. He told her that the girl said my friend was RUDE TO HER and that she had also threatened her. He said that he believed his "girlfriend" because he knows how my friend can act sometimes. My friend taped recorded the conversation with the girl and I heard the conversation as well. Long story short: he wants my friend out of the house and wants to keep their two small children with him and his "girlfriend". My friend is a stay at home mom, she is going back to school, she has no family out here in North Carolina, the only car they have is his, and the only money she will have is part of their tax return they will get. He and the girl are both military and their will be no one to look after the kids or take them to appointments. He also said that he will call the police or go to court if she tries to take the children back to Washington where her family lives. Is there anything that the Army can do to help her? Can he just throw her out like that? Is he allowed to shack up with some girl in the family housing? Please help. I don't know how to help my friend. Serious answers please. Thanks.
My friend recorded the conversation between her and the girl because she did not fully trust her husband and has been recording their phone calls. The last girl he cheated with did the exact same thing and he believed her. It was basically my friend's word against this other "female".
He told my friend that he does not care about what happens to her but that he will not let her take their children. He stated that his "girlfriend" would be a more suitable mother.
Did I also mention that all he ever does when he is home is play World of Warcraft and sleep in late? He doesn't really spend time with the kids and doesn't really help around their house.
My friend had a miscarriage a couple of weeks ago and now this "female" is saying she is pregnant by him and that they are going to get married and get custody of the kids.
My friend recorded the conversation between her and the girl because she did not fully trust her husband and has been recording their phone calls. The last girl he cheated with did the exact same thing and he believed her. It was basically my friend's word against this other "female".
He told my friend that he does not care about what happens to her but that he will not let her take their children. He stated that his "girlfriend" would be a more suitable mother.
Did I also mention that all he ever does when he is home is play World of Warcraft and sleep in late? He doesn't really spend time with the kids and doesn't really help around their house.
My friend had a miscarriage a couple of weeks ago and now this "female" is saying she is pregnant by him and that they are going to get married and get custody of the kids.