heartbroken, need to write him one last email.?

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You mean more than anyone ever did to me, but I'm sorry I just cant talk to you anymore. I wish it didn't have to end like this, but this IS the end. There wont ever be another shot for us. I hope you are happy with her,I really do. You deserve to be happy, noone made me as happy as you did.. or laugh as much, we have had some good times haven't we? Don't think about me at all,it's better this way. Maybe one day you will track me down and we can be friends, but one day wayyy in the future. If u see when im in out,walk by me, dont even look my way. It's best if we are out of each others lives,well at least that you are out of mine because it doesnt make any difference if I am in yours or not. Sorry for all the arguments and stupid things in the past. As much as I want to be friends with you or even be with you, the fact is,emotionally I cant be & I cant put myself through this again. I was nice to have a taste of what its like to have you, even if it was fake and not real, and even if you didnt mean everything that you said or done. Maybe one day you will see that we would have been good together,but then maybe not. I hope you'll be happy in all that you do, you deserve it.I'm not mad, just sad that I once knew you and lost you. Take care of yourself.. and her. I dont expect you to answer this, or even maybe to read it but there's nothing I can do about that. I'm gone now, I'll Always Love You, I really will. x

is that good enough? or does anyone else have any ideas?
cant think straight, he meant a lot to me and i need to say goodbye.
thanks for any answers x
if u dont have anything nice to say then dont say anything. DONT U HAVE A HEART?
lmao haha. i dont want him back dont worry, i said some nasty things and regret it thats all :)
i dont want him back, i really dont. im not jealous, well maybe a bit but i hope he will be happy with her, hes a great guy and does deserve to be happy with someone, even if that someone isnt me! there needs to be an end to us somewhere, as this has happened time after time, thats the only reason im writing this. really im not being dramatic, im too hurt to put on an act. i just want to move on now. thanks to all answerers x
 
As much as you want to give this to him, please don't. Hopefully just actually writing it out helped you out. You'll never know if he'll actually read it anyway and it sounds like he's already made up his mind. I know that it seems harsh but I've been in your situation before. You don't want him back if he's doing this to you now. You're better than him! Please trust me on this.
 
Babes, clearly the reason that you have published that mail is because you are really hurt, but try to keep it personel, send him a short an sweet message, dont write a long essay as he will not probly read throught it all, and if he does it will only give him another chance to hurt you, after i got beatn by my guy, i didnt want to be with him, and i regret writing a big essay to him, which was very sweet yet heartbreaking for me, and i cryed until i finished writing, and that gave him reason to slowly crawl back into my life, id written my heart out to the guy so he knew exactly how i felt, so he made his moves very carfully. if you love him as much as you say you do, let him go... and if comes back... then hes luck if not.. let it go.

xx
 
Don't send this or anything, just let it go
if he truly cares about you he will come back

but this email is going to push him farther away. I'm not saying this to be mean, I am saying this to be honest....this is what I took in from reading this....

You still care or even love this guy. You are saying that the relationship IS over but you keep mentioning to him that no one made you as happy as he did, not to think about you, that he maybe will track you down in the future, for him not to look your way if he sees you, for him to stay at least out of your life even if he wants to still be in yours, blah blah blah...........saying all of that is obviously making it sound like these ARE the things you want him to do, that you really still want him in your life and you mentioned all of this to him in case he was planning on totally erasing you.

Plus you mention "her" twice. I hope you are happy with her....take care of yourself...and her....I sense a bit of jealousy reading that.

Listen, I know you really want to have a "last word" but it's really just better off if you erase yourself from him. You obviously still acre for this guy, but this email sounds dramatic......don't talk to me, don't look at me, we are over....that's what it sounds like. You would probably hurt him if you DIDN'T say anything to him anymore or say any last words to him. He is probably expecting you to, so if you don't he is going to be caught off guard and will probably try his hardest to find and contact you. If that is the case, then he still cares about you.....if not, then you see what you meant to him all along.

Don't email him, you will regret it if you do. I know it's hard not to, I've been in your shoes before, just "vanish" per say and see if he does anything about it because if you email him a whiny dramatic email......he is going to hit the delete button and continue to drink beer with his buddies
 
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