The guy I've been seeing on and off for a couple months, but we've been hanging out less and less, and he's always been really nice to me, had been rude to me at a party last week.
I called him out and he apologized profusely and said that he got a little mad because I was "flirting with his friend" (I wasn't - his friend lent me his sweatshirt because I was freezing and it's not like the guy offered me HIS!) and asked if he can make it up to me by being extra nice when we hangout again.
He then apologized another time for being rude and said he's sorry we haven't hungout, he's been sick.
I said no worries.
He texted me the next day and asked me to hangout with him. I was way too busy, so I asked if we could do tomorrow instead.
"Tomorrow" is today. And today is when my friend, who has a class with him, told me that he texted HER yesterday asking to hangout.
This pissed me off because they only talk because they're both friends with ME. And so I specifically asked her if he had hit on her and she said no. But I wasn't sure if she'd really tell me.
So I got mad that he's making the same amount of effort to see MY FRIEND as he is with me! Not cool! Especially because they're not good friends at all.
So I texted him saying that I can't hangout today after all, considering he'd hit on my friend.
I figured if he really didn't, then he would just say he didn't mean it that way and I'd say okay, I believe you, and this would lead into a discussion that he only likes me (ideally).
What INSTEAD happened was he was a total jerk and was like, "I don't remember. Who was it?" I was appalled. Why is he blatantly being rude to me about hitting on other girls? AND FRIENDS of mine at that?
My friend texted me that he asked her about it in class, and that she just played dumb and said she had no idea what he was talking about. So then I knew that he knew EXACTLY who it was.
So I texted him back saying, "It doesn't matter. I refuse to share." And he said, "Ha ok".
W.T.F?!
Yesterday he was still apologizing for being rude to me A WEEK AGO, and today he tries to act like he really has been hitting on my friend and so rudely too?!
So I wrote back saying "You know, I don't understand why you were so concerned about apologizing to me for your rudeness last week, yet you have no problem doing the most a**hole thing ever and hitting on my friend."
He didn't write back. We also live next to each other in the dorms, and I'm super bummed because I'm going ot have to see him all the time and he's NEVER been like this before, and I thought his rudeness before was just out of jealously.
I also have a sorority Formal dance in less than a month, and now, no one to ask.
What do you think? Why did he act like this? And how do I get over the fact that although he's always been sooo sweet, I WILL NOT tolerate how he acted tonight and how do I find someone else?
I called him out and he apologized profusely and said that he got a little mad because I was "flirting with his friend" (I wasn't - his friend lent me his sweatshirt because I was freezing and it's not like the guy offered me HIS!) and asked if he can make it up to me by being extra nice when we hangout again.
He then apologized another time for being rude and said he's sorry we haven't hungout, he's been sick.
I said no worries.
He texted me the next day and asked me to hangout with him. I was way too busy, so I asked if we could do tomorrow instead.
"Tomorrow" is today. And today is when my friend, who has a class with him, told me that he texted HER yesterday asking to hangout.
This pissed me off because they only talk because they're both friends with ME. And so I specifically asked her if he had hit on her and she said no. But I wasn't sure if she'd really tell me.
So I got mad that he's making the same amount of effort to see MY FRIEND as he is with me! Not cool! Especially because they're not good friends at all.
So I texted him saying that I can't hangout today after all, considering he'd hit on my friend.
I figured if he really didn't, then he would just say he didn't mean it that way and I'd say okay, I believe you, and this would lead into a discussion that he only likes me (ideally).
What INSTEAD happened was he was a total jerk and was like, "I don't remember. Who was it?" I was appalled. Why is he blatantly being rude to me about hitting on other girls? AND FRIENDS of mine at that?
My friend texted me that he asked her about it in class, and that she just played dumb and said she had no idea what he was talking about. So then I knew that he knew EXACTLY who it was.
So I texted him back saying, "It doesn't matter. I refuse to share." And he said, "Ha ok".
W.T.F?!
Yesterday he was still apologizing for being rude to me A WEEK AGO, and today he tries to act like he really has been hitting on my friend and so rudely too?!
So I wrote back saying "You know, I don't understand why you were so concerned about apologizing to me for your rudeness last week, yet you have no problem doing the most a**hole thing ever and hitting on my friend."
He didn't write back. We also live next to each other in the dorms, and I'm super bummed because I'm going ot have to see him all the time and he's NEVER been like this before, and I thought his rudeness before was just out of jealously.
I also have a sorority Formal dance in less than a month, and now, no one to ask.
What do you think? Why did he act like this? And how do I get over the fact that although he's always been sooo sweet, I WILL NOT tolerate how he acted tonight and how do I find someone else?