he wants to have sex but i have battle wounds from having my son?

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Nicki

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when i had my son i got sick and ended up gettin a flesh eattin health issue.. i had to have skin from my thighs to cover my organs on my stomach.. i dont want to tell him exactly what happend im trying to get over and move on with my life i dont want him to look at me naked and look at my body in descrase what can i do when having sex u cover it up an still look sexy.. ps im in the process of having plastic surgery that involves stretching my skin so its not that bad lookin but hes hot as hell and i want to but my battles scars of having my son are holding me back..
 
Is this guy your son's father???

I'm guessing not. So...if this guy really cares about you, your scars are the last thing he will be worried about. Things happen to people unexpectedly.

For example, you can be dating someone, get into a horrible accident, and have major damage done to your body. Now, if that would change the feelings that person you are in a relationship with has for you, then you find out that you are better off without that person.

So you can explain to him what occurred while giving birth to your son. If he has an issue with that, then you move on. Find someone that cares for you unconditionally.
 
Yeah I agree if the guy likes you he will understand he should like you for who u are in the inside not in the outside! talk to him because then if you dont talk to him and he does not know the situation maybe he will think that you are not having sex with him because you dont reaslly like him or that maybe yoy have someone else you need to be open in the relationship and trust your partner.
 
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