he uses me for sex, but he says he loves me. what do i do?

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we dated before, but we broke up because he moved to California to pursue his music education. well, he came home two months ago almost and he gets mad at me because i don't hang with him. i know when he wants to hang he just wants one thing. he calls me chewing me out saying "you never want to be with me." "why don't you like me anymore?" "why won't you see me?" i really care about him. i care about him more than anyone. i broke up all my relationships so i can be with him. when he wanted me he got me. i don't know what to do. he wants to be with me, so he says, and i want to be with him, but i want to believe he wants me more than he wants sex.


what do i do?
 
Dont give him sex for a month or two and you will find out how much he really loves you. I think you can do way better in my opinion.
 
forget about him, he's just playing games, and you can do better. I could write a whole paragraph explaining why, but it would just result in the same answer I just gave you.
 
Sometimes, first conclusions aren't always appropriate. I'm sure you care about him, but perhaps you're only caring because you guys know each other and he makes you happy here and there; the question is: are you merely convincing yourself you love him? Honestly, I'd be happy for you if you decided to leave him. It is your choice, as I am not you, but you sound like his toy-- hope not.
 
i kinda used to have the same problem. there was a guy and i gave him my num. he was like we should be mates.so i was like ok, but every time he saw me we would do stuff. but when i went to hold his hand he was like i dont want a relationship just mates. in the end i just kept ignoring him. i really liked him even though i knew i shouldnt of. but the best thing to do was end it as soon as, so i say the same for you. hope i helped x
 
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