HE HAD SEX WITH ANOTHER GURL? IS IT OKAYY to..?

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me and matt my ex broke up and he ended up getting with my friend and after a week because he was huirting from me breaking up with him he had sex with her he said "i put it in and then just pulled it out cause i regretted it" i know hes done bad things but overall hes a good guy and do you think its okay that i get back with him even though like he had sex with her and like we promised wed have sex with eachother? but does it even count? should i really be bothered over that
 
You broke up. You are no longer boyfriend and girlfriend. Why would you want to have sex with him again?

Over is over, pet. Move on and stop lingering. When you break up with someone, break up cleanly.
 
Ok well he was single so it is ok that he did that and so much for your friend respecting you enough to say no to your ex's cock. So in turn if you were to get back with him would you let the fact that he screwed around with your friend bother you, so much that you can't be in a relationship with him. Oh and that whole I pulled it out because its not right thing didn't happen. He had sex with her plain and simple. No one pulls out and says to themselves, no this isn't right. So be careful of what you want from him, protect yourself.
 
wow...she's not much of a friend is she?

You should cut contact with both of them...
 
it counts
he still put it in
i would be more mad at her cause she is your "friend"
atleast he took it out.
she couldnt of if he wanted too
 
yes i think you should be bothered by that including with your friend if she was really your friend i'm not sure she would have done that with you ex boyfriend so soon or even at all
 
its a hard thing to grasp but in a way it is okay. he was trying to move on but found it to be wrong. u were broken up so really u shouldnt be too mad at him. it was your freind but if u should be mad at anyone it would be your friend. not saying to be mad at her but she knew what he meant to you. he was just trying to move on. then couldnt

hope i make sense, good luck
 
well at least he didnt cheat on you...i'll give him that. what since he did with your best friend a week later, that doesnt sound good. but if you think hes a good guy i think he deserves a second chance...and since he was hurt he probly did something he wouldnt normally do. just give it some time...like a few weeks and if you think he deserves a second chance then go for it...i hope i helped :]]
 
WOW !! .... well, does it bother you ?

you should ask him how would he feel if only after a week you went and had sex with his friend but only for like a minute ...would that bother him? ... would he be upset or would he want to qet back with you? .... doesnt matter if he was hurtin' cause you quys broke up im sure he is old enouqh to know havinq sex with some else your friend on top of that is wronq its not riqht ... if you qet back with him i think you'll look stupid because number 1 you took him back and ur friend is qunna be like i already qot a piece of that and btw she isnt ur friend if she did that ...she looks like a whore. sorry. but i would qet back with him ...just move on there someone better out there for uu
 
don't trust him anymore.

penis don't just get in other's genitals if it's not aroused or if there's nothing that caused it to erect. it's not the same as drinking a hot coffee and throwing it up once you realized that it is too hot for you to drink.

he can make you believe when he said : "i put it in and pull it out..."

but the question now is, "How long did it take for him to take it out and realized that he regretted doing such act?" after an hour?

think about it. don't let him fool you just like that. im sure you're an amazing woman. you don't deserve to be treated like that. for sure, you'll meet a good guy after him. someone you truly deserve.=)
 
Are you even old enough to be having sex?
From this question it *sounds* like you re not.

Secondly, No you should not go out with him, You're so called friends should NOT have slept with you're Ex, and He certainly should NOT have slept with you're friend.

Although you had broken up it is still the principle of him going with you're Friend (even though he said he regrets it) his intentions where still the same.

Please Grow up and learn a bit more about relationships before you go sleeping around and getting yourself pregnant.
 
don't trust him anymore.

penis don't just get in other's genitals if it's not aroused or if there's nothing that caused it to erect. it's not the same as drinking a hot coffee and throwing it up once you realized that it is too hot for you to drink.

he can make you believe when he said : "i put it in and pull it out..."

but the question now is, "How long did it take for him to take it out and realized that he regretted doing such act?" after an hour?

think about it. don't let him fool you just like that. im sure you're an amazing woman. you don't deserve to be treated like that. for sure, you'll meet a good guy after him. someone you truly deserve.=)
 
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