I and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now. We are even thinking of getting married. He is a virgin and i am not. I try talking to him about us having sex but he says no on grounds of him wanting to keep himself before marriage. But i really wish he could have sex with me because i have heard about guys who are infertile and hide in the name of no sex before marriage and after marriage, they cannot perform as a man. Do i keep pressurizing him for sex or i should just wait until affter marriage ?