He cooked for me ..should I do something in return or not and if so ..any ideas?

Well I've been working at a restaurant for about 6 months now im a server..and I've developed a crush on one of the cooks working there... he flirts with me all the time and stuff ... but I don't know y?... he has a gf... btw... he's always nice to specially me.. I dunno if he sees me as a little sister or as a woman i m 20 he's 27..:/...the other day.. I gave him a ride home and he then repaid me :) out of his own will duh... by cooking me a small meal at work...:) I was impressed and soo happy cuz no guy has ever cooked for me before ..those were some sexy points right there;)... I kno. I kno. he has a gf... but 5 months as I remember isn't sooo serious.. plus I'm not a forward type of girl simply if he flirts with me first I flirt back cuz he's soo cute.. should I get my hopes up... or like bring him a treat when I see him..or just. Act like if every guy I know cooks for me:)
 
He has a gf and should not be flirting with you at all. What if he was your bf and he was behaving like that with someone. Why waste your time, find someone who is available.
 
you can be yourself and if you happen to bring a batch of cupcakes to share that would be a nice jester to everyone but if he is interest he will let you know, so just go on with your business and be yourself.
 
Cook Salmon, add black pepper, garlic salt, red pepper, lots of it and then cook it on seven for ten miuntes, flip it once, serve with mac n cheese
 
it's not a big deal for him. i cook on a line too and smuggle the front of house food all the time. it really isn't a big deal to us. we are constantly eating back there. it's rare to go an hour without stealing a bite of something.

the flirting is just something we do. i flirt with every good looking girl out there and i have a 4 year relationship.

just treat him like a friend
 
He was flirting and just being nice. Just because a guy has a girlfriend doesn't mean he should treat all other women like blocks of wood. Don't presume anything unless he makes the first move like asking for a date. just be nice ti him and a nice than you would be enough.

If you want to flirt with him then that is okay as long as you keep your hands to yourself. Breaking up a relationship that possibly may be heading for marriage would not be very nice unless you intend to marry him yourself.

Working as a chef is a long and laborious duty. Most chefs or cooks arrive at 5am to receive fresh stock form deliveries to ensure proper freshness is maintained. They also do many preparations at this time.

Their life is in the kitchen so a little flirting is always expected to brighten up their day. The moment you make a mistake,he will be yelling at you like a naughty child so, watch out!
 
first put urself in the position of his gf , how would u feel toward the girl stealing ur man.
second thing would u consider a man serious if he is flirting w\ another woman and he already has a gf ... would u trust him not to cheat on u if he was urs???
for myself i would never get serious w\ a cheating girl never ... cuz who cheats once cheats all the time...
i don't think u need to do him anything in return more than being nice to him and show him respect as he is older than u.

goodluck my friend...
 
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