I am 24 and my ex is 28.We broke up in january .
I have been on and off with him for 4 years but he is a compulsive liar.
We were together this time for 8 months and i was in love with him,he told me he loved me and was so happy we were together .He would tell me he loved me all the time and we would speak everyday,he would ring me a lot .
Before me he was with a girl called allison (not the mother of his child) he was with her for a year but went behind her back and cheated )she found and ended it .
Hes ex girlfriend who he has a child with was on his facebook but he never added me.
Then i thought id have a look at her on facebook...i found status saying waiting for the other half to come home from work (hes a bouncer) basicaly made it clear they were living together and had been for a while.
Devastated doesnt come into how i felt...basicaly i told him i knew he denied it saying it was all for the child and then stopped responding to my texts and calls (thats how it ended).
Now 3 months ago he messaged me on facebook asking how i was ,i responded and then he added me as a friend .Hes spoke to me twice on chat and nothing since.
Its killin me having him on facebook,i check his profile everyday and they must still be together even tho his status says single...but i dont want to seem pathetic by deleting him.
To top it off now my best friend has added him to her facebook and the girl he is living with...i feel like they are all really pally pally and im left out in the cold.
I feel like an idiot .My friend and her now friendly with each other after what he did to me....i cant stand it.
Do i delete him and then i have no reminders?
What do i do?why did he add me after everything?how could he do it to me?How do i get a bit dignity back?
I have been on and off with him for 4 years but he is a compulsive liar.
We were together this time for 8 months and i was in love with him,he told me he loved me and was so happy we were together .He would tell me he loved me all the time and we would speak everyday,he would ring me a lot .
Before me he was with a girl called allison (not the mother of his child) he was with her for a year but went behind her back and cheated )she found and ended it .
Hes ex girlfriend who he has a child with was on his facebook but he never added me.
Then i thought id have a look at her on facebook...i found status saying waiting for the other half to come home from work (hes a bouncer) basicaly made it clear they were living together and had been for a while.
Devastated doesnt come into how i felt...basicaly i told him i knew he denied it saying it was all for the child and then stopped responding to my texts and calls (thats how it ended).
Now 3 months ago he messaged me on facebook asking how i was ,i responded and then he added me as a friend .Hes spoke to me twice on chat and nothing since.
Its killin me having him on facebook,i check his profile everyday and they must still be together even tho his status says single...but i dont want to seem pathetic by deleting him.
To top it off now my best friend has added him to her facebook and the girl he is living with...i feel like they are all really pally pally and im left out in the cold.
I feel like an idiot .My friend and her now friendly with each other after what he did to me....i cant stand it.
Do i delete him and then i have no reminders?
What do i do?why did he add me after everything?how could he do it to me?How do i get a bit dignity back?