he can't stay hard during sex?

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So my boyfriend and i have had sex (if that's even what you'd call it) 5 times all of which he can't stay hard for.as far as i can tell it's not a medical condition because it's not a problem when I'm giving him head. He's not a virgin or worried about being walked in on, the only thing i could think of was the condom cutting off his circulation but it's not that either. I'm a very attractive girl but this is slowly smashing my self confidence. advice well needed
 
Condoms can't really make a guy lose his erection. It's probably nerves, above everything else. Also, just like sexual intercourse is sometimes not enough for a girl to reach climax, it is sometimes not enough for guys to keep an erection. Different things work for different people, and oral sex seems to work for him. Try other sexual activities and maybe you can try getting him to go see a doctor, just to make sure that you can eliminate that.

Also, just in case I'm wrong.. Does he not keep an erection because he loses it, or because he reaches climax too soon for you?
 
Try sex counseling, his problem is not uncommon and the more it happens the worse it will get. Good luck
 
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