having sex for the first time..?

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Shelby

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me and my boyfriend were thinking about having sex for the first time and i wanted to know a couple of things..

Who should be on top?

How bad will it hurt?

Does it bleed right away? (if it bleeds)

What does it feel like when your hymen breaks?

Is there anything else i need to know about having sex for the first time??
 
For the first time he should be on top, at least, I noticed it hurt less for me when he was on top.

If you are relaxed and well lubricated ((Start off with Lots of foreplay!)), it will hurt less, although some girls it will hurt more, some much less. With myself, for example, it hurt A lot...however, my friend didn't feel any pain at all.

Many girls have already broken their hymen from dancing, horseback riding, etc, yours may also already be broken.

I didn't bleed at all myself, but some girls do, it really depends.

Relax! If you feel stressed about it, and you can't relax, save it for another time..It hurts a lot less if you are relaxed, and it's much more enjoyable.

Birthcontrol! You can still get pregnant during your first time, so make sure you have a few condoms ready ((Or on the pill))!!!

Other then that, have fun :)
 
I agree with the first girls answer but since you asked a question, ill answer it!

Let him be on top for the first time, for me it hurts when im on top.

It will kinda hurt but you just gotta relax and it will feel good, thats what I gotta do!

It doesnt bleed right away, at least it didnt for me, it doesnt bleed alot either.

It doesnt feel like anything when it breaks, it may hurt alittle but you kinda think that the pain is from the sex not the hymen, at least I did.

First time sex, remember to use a condom, and not that stupid pull out method... it DOES NOT WORK!

Good luck, hope I helped a little!
 
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