having sex for the first time..?

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so im a virgin.
and me and my boyfriend have kinda been talking..and im pretty sure we'll have sex sometime soon for the first time.
im pretty nervous tho,i hear it hurts and stuff!

so what im wondering is..
how much will it hurt?
what usually happens the first time? (if that makes sense)
will there be alot of blood?
do guys like it shaved "down there"? (haha)
and what are just some really good tips?

thank you very much :)



and yes,im on the pill and condoms will for sure be used!
 
As guilty as i feel for giving info to a virgin about sex,
your going to do it anyways so..

Honestly, yes, it hurts.
It is somewhat painful but take it slow.
You may feel awkward but you need to be in control for the first time
so that you can go at your own pace.
Eh, everyone is different but there shouldn't be that much blood.
Yeah most guys like it shaved, but some don't care,
so i would if i were you.
Good tips:
Loose it to someone meaningful.
(it will hurt you for the rest of your life if it's a jerk you loose it to)
Don't be afraid to speak up
(if your not comfortable, tell him)
Oral comes first or not at all
(that's just gross)

That's all i can think of right now.
 
There may be blood...if you have sex the wrong way. First of all u need to have a way to lube ur vagina or wherever he's going to be sticking his penis into. So, like the chick said before me, oral sex is definitely a FIRST!!! This stimulates the vagina and feels way better for u when he parks the car in the garage. (If u kno what i mean)
 
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