having sex for the 1st time?

[mybaybeh]

ok well i am 15 and i had sex for the 1st time with my boyfriend but he has already had sex before well anyway he said that nothing happened as far as " popping my cherry " sorry to be nasty but i need to kno how come i didnt bleed or whatever? plz answer

 

[Aaron R]

maybe your hymen was already broken before.

 

[Gem]

Hi! Don't worry. I am 26 and have never bled after sex.
Somepeople bleed, some people dont.
Chances are your hymen has already broken through normal activities such as horseback riding, swimming, sports etc or even inserting a tampon.
Sometimes however the hymen does not break the first time.
It really is nothing to be worried about.

You should be concernend however about using condoms and the pill!

 

[BUNNY]

You could have a slacker hymen than other girls. It could have been broken through Gym class, horse-riding, random acts of raucousness and rambunctiousness etc. He also might not have completely gone for it too much because he knew it was your 1st time. Some girls bleed, some don't. Be glad you didn't, but don't think that it won't happen at some other time. Not that I am advocating promiscuity, but you might find that different men, have different sizes if you know what I mean
So maybe some time in the future you will be like "what the...?" and think something is up... but it ain't.

Plus, maybe its a good thing because you are 15 years old girlfriend... and why are you posting this in the "trying to conceive"? Please tell me that this is not an option.

Just a little thing to consider... why would your boyf even want to know about whether you bled or not.. surely the point was to make love and enjoy each other rather than just have a notch on his "I popped this many cherrys" log. Make sure that this is not why he/you did it and if it was... think long and hard about doing it again hunny.