yeah, when i feel that some people wanna intrude into personal space without invitation i kind of answer anything, anything that don't hold cuz after a while they get that i'm fucking with them and probably back off thinking `that was maybe too personal to ask'.
but like you added, not like i wanted to hide anything from hateful bigots, hell no. au contraire, if i sense one i do everything to flag my gayness in his or her face just to suppress them muthafuckas.
example:
i went to nyc for new years' 2011, and some bum out of nowhere totally cut in our conversation as we were obviously determinedly "GOING" somewhere, i told him off.... later he caught up going like, "oh, no, i ain't a bum just...bla bla" i'm like, "k, i don't care, not my problem, now good luck and happy new year." he's just standing there looking stupid, then he's like, "are you a lesbian?" lol i know! i'm like, "none of you're fucking business!"
example ^^^^^^^
but not to avoid hateful bigots you know what i mean. or like at a new job, other colleagues ask you a million personal questions when you have just met them 10 mins ago and that i never gave them the "go ahead" to ask me all these personal questions. kinda thing, that rubs me the wrong way.