Wandering Stranger
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do if one of you dies early? isn't it depressing?
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have you and your significant other discussed what you, or him/her, would
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Rio Madeira
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We've joked around about him being kidnapped by Colombian guerillas, but that's about it.
Winter Glory
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Yes, and we've banned each other from doing it.
Joking aside, we have *most* of our affairs in order.
Joking aside, we have *most* of our affairs in order.
♥The Mrs.♥
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Yes and yes.
We have, and not really depressing.
For me, I'd rather know what the people I love want and talk it through so they know what I want too rather than just avoid it.
It's inevitable, we're all going to die, so why not sort things out so it's less stressful on the ones you love if it happens?
That's my spin on it at least. There'd be so much else to deal with, I'd want them to not be wondering how I'd want things done, and I'd rather not wonder if I'm going against their wishes.
More comforting than not to know if anything unthinkable happens to me, they'll know when to try and save me or when I'd rather they just let me go. The ones closest to me have nearly all felt the same.
The ones who don't, we just don't talk about it.
For me, I'd rather know what the people I love want and talk it through so they know what I want too rather than just avoid it.
It's inevitable, we're all going to die, so why not sort things out so it's less stressful on the ones you love if it happens?
That's my spin on it at least. There'd be so much else to deal with, I'd want them to not be wondering how I'd want things done, and I'd rather not wonder if I'm going against their wishes.
More comforting than not to know if anything unthinkable happens to me, they'll know when to try and save me or when I'd rather they just let me go. The ones closest to me have nearly all felt the same.
The ones who don't, we just don't talk about it.
Ladyfair I
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as a matter of fact, we have. it is depressing and morbid. he's older than me... but I refuse to think of that, so I always dismiss that subject everytime he brings it up. truth is, if I'm going to be the one who will be left behind, I don't know how I will live my life, but I guess I will refuse to. I may sound pathetic for saying so, but he's a part of my life.