Hating school .. help?!?

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Well heres the thing,
Im in year 10 and some of my friends who i thought was close to have just ditched my group.
There was no fight or anything,
& now they're just going around chasing guys and just not talking to me or my other friends while we try to talk to them.

Now i might be sounding really kiddish but Is there anyway to get the group back together??
 
You say they aren't talking to you when you or your other friends try to talk to them, so obviously you've already made at least two attempts to bring everyone back together.

Don't hate them. Don't snub them. But don't chase them down like your life would be over and meaningless without them.

Move on. Focus your efforts on those who are still your friends, and put the highest priority on your academic work. Do that and soon they might need help with THEIR academic work.
 
They are going through the "boy mad" stage. It's best to let them get it out of their system. If they are true friends they'll be back. Stick with the friends you have now.
 
I went through this in high school, i was a sophomore too. Bottom line is girls go through their fazes. I remember the two girls who left our little "click" went to go hang out with this other group who did nothing but party and chase after guys also. We didn't hang out the whole year but once it came down to it they got tired of it. High School is something you need to enjoy with your true friends and they eventually realized that. What you need to do is join some clubs, do leadership, go to the dances and have some fun. I know it sucks seeing your fiends drift away but the most you can do is hope that they some to their senses. You and the friends that are with you now have the time of your lives and show those other girls what they're missing out on. High passes by sooooo fast and you only live it once so make the best of it with what you have. Trust me, I enjoyed high school to the fullest and i miss it so much! Your true friends will come back to you and if they don't then maybe you should re-think your guys friendship. Good luck girlie and have a blast!

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