Hate sex a good option?

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You either like it or not.

Ideas or opinions on what? Your post doesn't really make sense.
 
How can you hate sex? I mean, not loving it, fine, but hating it?

I hate having my blood drawn, or being punched in the mouth. How can you put sex in the same category?

It's not really normal to hate sex. First, it's part of our animalistic tendencies to procreate. Second, it feels great (if you do it right) and third, it's about as close as two people can get emotionally and physically. Again, humans crave contact. We're pack creatures.

To not have the above desires isn't normal. It generally means something is wrong with you.

So, again, to not like sex so far because A) you only had selfish partners B) you were molested/raped and have a problem with the contact of another human because it brings back memories or C) because you haven't done it right are all decent reasons. To hate sex as a typical reaction is pretty weird.

You should get help, regardless, because you either have some major issues or some sort of chemical imbalance.
 
well if you've got a prob with someone angry makeup sex wont fix whats going on unless u guys work it out. but any good sex is just what it is good sex.

getting in a sexual relationship with someone u dont like/cant stand might not be the best idea.

hate sex i think can be extra good in its own way cause u dont give a crap about what the other is thinking and ur also getting out some frustration but u might regret doing it after
 
well have you climaxed? cause that cause's your brain to release chemicals that make you feel great, so scientifically you should like it. if it is specifically sex (not masturbation) maybe your just having problems cause you don't like who your with, or maybe because your worried about getting pregnant (in which case take more precautions so your not worried about that: condoms, pills, spermicidal lube, etc.). Maybe then you will feel you actually do start to enjoy sex.
 
i have this boy i like and i have sex with him 24/7 ts a bit painful but releases all my stress...ya know...? okay well u could hate sex i waited until i was married its better cause you know your not just doing it to do it so its actually pretty nice but its not bad 2 hate it :)
 
Wow this is tricky. Depending on your age and what experiences you have had it is impossible to answer this question.
Do you have an older sister or brother that you could talk to? What about the school nurse or better yet a doctor that u really trust. I wish you the best. Talk to someone that is older that u really trust.
 
i can answer your question better if you put info on why you would have hate sex
 
Sex is really a love it or hate it kind of activity. If one hates it but wants to like it, they probably have issues with their partner, be them physical or emotional, or orientation issues.
 
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