GUYS- would you date someone who won't ever have sex with you?

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every relationship i've been in has ended shortly after the sex discussion... anyway that is about 7 short relationships that i ahve had in the past few months only because i won't put out. are there any guys out there that won't "require" sex to date? not that i am askin for a boyfriend, i just want to know that there are, or arent , some out there. let me know what you think.
oh and can you please mention your age with your answer??? thanks.
 
Aww I'm sorry to hear that:[

Don't worry though, not all guys are just looking for sex. Some will just love you for who you are:] Even if you don't put out. I respect you for that. Good luck:]
 
I started dating my boyfriend when we were both 16 and he was fine with us not having sex. We lost our virginities to each other when we were both 19 after dating for three years because we didn't feel ready until then... even though he was the last of his friends to have sex. I am now 23 (we have broken up) and I don't regret waiting.

If a guy isn't willing to wait until you feel ready, then he isn't worth it anyway. That is called respect and repect is way more important than sex in relationships.

I have dated several guys since then. I had sex with some of them and I didn't with others. I am not a prude or a religious zealist, I just want to make sure the guy likes me for ME and not for sex before I am willing to share that part of me with him.
 
Am not a guy but

You wanna have sex after marriage?
I completely agree with you if that is your view.

Don't worry, there will be a guy like that out there for you.
 
Don't ever let a guy tell you that you can't have a relationship without sex. That's a bunch of bull crap. If the guy likes you for you, then he'd be willing to wait. Relationships are about companionship and understanding and clearly, if they can't hold out for you, then there is no understanding.

For example, I've had cervical issues that I've been dealing with which means me and my boyfriend have to wait at least a month for sex, does that mean he's not my boyfriend during that month? No. I don't see why a relationship in general with no sex would be any different.

The guys that you've been talkin to clearly aren't the ones for you and you're just finding out before it gets too complicated. That's a good thing. Don't change your view for anyone but yourself. I support you!
 
I don't know if i count because I'm 14 but I don't plan on having sex till I get married.
 
Yes, I dated a girl for a whole year with no sex, because that was her wishes so I respected her. We still kissed and slept in the same bed, just no sex. It wasn't a problem, and in many ways, it was good because it meant we could focus on who we were as people rather than sexual gratification. The relationship lasted a year as she was studiying from overseas, and I have no regrets at all. (I'm 37)
 
yeah there are, i wont "put out" either and my boyfriend doesn't mind, he doesn't care if he has to wait or if he never gets to do it with me, he only wants to make me happy. he's soon to be 17 btw.
 
do you mean EVER ever? If there wasnt going to be any ever, then no. But i dont require it from a girlfriend, maybe some other activities, but sex inst a requirement for me. Not all guys are after sex, but a lot of the younger ones are.
 
A relationship with out sex is just a friendship, Sex is natural and there is nothing wrong with it.
 
Any girl who told me that i'd leave, why have a relation where ill just be tempted for no reason. i dont want a girl who is the city knob but if she would not ever do it then i'd say f u.

i'm sure these men exist >< but they are probably dorky guys or religious zealots. im not overly sexual a few times a year even i can deal with but never, nah thats just too, too, uh and just cheat on her so why put do that to someone
 
If you find a guy that will only date you for sex, he is not worth it.

ELIMINATE HIM! lol...

just kidding but you should totally go for guys who respect your decision to keep the "puttin out" to yourself until you want to.
 
yes there are but maybe very few, if they really loved you they wouldn't care about that and they would just wait. I mean that is a really stupid reason to break up with somebody if you truly care and respect that person
 
No a relationship most definitely does not require sex, it tends to complicate thing, and i my age is 19 though i don't see how that is relevant.
 
Trust me there is im with one. he's 20 and im 21 i was honest before we started dating that im a strictly no sex before marriage type of girl and he is kool with and even though he is not a virgin he promised he wont do anything that im not comfortable with. We've been together for nearly 2months and i see it going somewhere good. Hope u find someone like him coz he's heaven sent
 
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