Right okay.. So I'm 18 years old and I'm seeing this 28 year old man. We've been going for about 3/4 months but at the moment, it's nothing too serious.
Although we've both agreed we're not officially a couple - we still both act like it, physically & emotionally.
Anyway, not long ago, we slept together. Without a condom. Yes, stupid, I know, but anyway I got the morning after pill. However, I was really late for my period and I kept on having thoughts like "What if i was pregnant?!" So I spoke to him about it.. LUCKILY, I wasn't pregnant.. But he's still worried..
And so, he's called off sex until he's happy we're officially a couple. So I said fair enough, no foreplay either (which kinda went out of the window). It's kinda annoying because I spent quite a bit of money to have a really romantic night with him - which has now gone out the window because he's abstinent.
Basically, what do you lot think? Do you think he's being ridiculous? I mean, I'm NOT pregnant.. Not at all.. He won't even sleep with me with contraception.. I think it's ridiculous but then maybe I'm being naive.. He is older than me.. I dunno. Would any of you guys do the same as him in this situation?
