This guy kept flirting with me and said things like "he liked how girly i was." thing is he had a g/f, but broke up with her recently and made out wiht my (easy) friend one night. We had much to drink two nights ago and were much more flirty than usual--he held my hand, put his arm around my waist, etc. (NO KISSING OCCURRED). Last night at a dinner party he was acting awkward although still being nice and talking to me. I emailed him to ask what the flirting meant: hooking up or more and he wrote: "im sorry i wasnt even really hoping for a hookup, and im not interested in you as other than a friend. honestly i feel pretty shitty about it because you are a good friend and i dont think that is an appropriate way to treat a friend. im not sure what i was thinking honestly, i think i was just depressing and NOT thinking. i hope i wasnt fucking with your head, and if i was im sorry, i know better than to do that." WHY DO THIS I'm tired of guys thinking b/c i'm super nice and hot means i give out (i'm a virgin till marriage and looking for a REAL r/s!)