There's a guy I've known for 3 years. He started working for my family’s business last summer, and I work a lot, so we end up spending a lot of time together. He's never had a gf or been kissed. And sometimes, I'm CONVINCED he likes me and other times I'M SURE he DOESN'T.
Today, my mother made me wear this sweater dress thing (I HAD to because "grandma bought it") It's short and hits just below my butt, so I wore black leggings under it. Makes me self conscious. Tonight, I stepped in front of the fireplace, and the guy I know said, "WHAT are you doing?"
I turned to him, "Warming my butt. Do you have a problem with that?"
He got quiet for a second, “No…you have a nice butt.” He stopped. But then he pushed it, “Very firm, round.”
I turned to him, laughing, “Don’t cross the line. No more.” Then he went off about how his friend’s mom got workout advice (NOTE: he works out. CONSTANTLY. He’s ripped.) from him about how to tone her butt to be “firm and round.” I was laughing so hard I forgot how embarrassed I was. He’s commented before I have “a big butt” (I don’t honestly. And I’m tall.)
GUYS! WITH THE BUTT COMMENTN, WAS HE TRYING TO DISRESPECT ME or be funny? Was he somehow serious about the butt comment and trying to cover it up? Like he’s been checking me out? We’re 19.
Today, my mother made me wear this sweater dress thing (I HAD to because "grandma bought it") It's short and hits just below my butt, so I wore black leggings under it. Makes me self conscious. Tonight, I stepped in front of the fireplace, and the guy I know said, "WHAT are you doing?"
I turned to him, "Warming my butt. Do you have a problem with that?"
He got quiet for a second, “No…you have a nice butt.” He stopped. But then he pushed it, “Very firm, round.”
I turned to him, laughing, “Don’t cross the line. No more.” Then he went off about how his friend’s mom got workout advice (NOTE: he works out. CONSTANTLY. He’s ripped.) from him about how to tone her butt to be “firm and round.” I was laughing so hard I forgot how embarrassed I was. He’s commented before I have “a big butt” (I don’t honestly. And I’m tall.)
GUYS! WITH THE BUTT COMMENTN, WAS HE TRYING TO DISRESPECT ME or be funny? Was he somehow serious about the butt comment and trying to cover it up? Like he’s been checking me out? We’re 19.