Ok- sorry if this is a bit graphic but I'm a virgin- my bf isn't altho I suspect he's very inexperienced. When we started making out he would concentrate on me a lot and we'd kiss for ages. Recently he's realised that my hand does a good job so he kisses me for a while then moves my hand there. Once we tried to have full sex but he couldn't get it in- probably a combination of me being tight and him panicking due to condom etc. The next time he practically **** in my hand. My question is, I don't mind making him **** in my hand as long as we do it properly after. Is that possible or once he's **** is that it? Should I just rub him for a short time then say ok enough- put it in!!! Any advice would be gratefully received!