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what if she was a virgin? HELP!? I KNOW THIS IS LONG! BUT READ PLS?
I'm 20 & a virgin (impossible, right?) & have been dating my current bf for a year & a half now. He's been so patient w/ me which I appreciate A LOT.. I know it must be hard for him (no pun intended! haa) He's 26.
No he's not been getting any side action (again, I know it's unheard of). We've been dating long distance for a good chunk of our relationship (we met in college & he was studying here from the UK but he had to go back...)
He's coming to see me for my bday in April, for a week, and I really wanna share something special w/ him b/c he means SO much to me. For us to have stayed strong and stay committed, with the distance and all, just proves to me that we have something special. I mean there's no point in us wasting time if we didn't mean anything to each other.
So yeah, I wanna have sex with him, and I'm not asking on Y!A whether or not I should do it so don't assume anything. It's just that he'll only be here for a week and I don't wanna seem "easy" by doing it w/ him in such a short time frame, ya know?
I know he won't think that way, but I'm used to being the "girl that got away" lol, I'm used to NOT having sex/making them wait. Maybe that's why I feel this way.
Anyways, he's done so much for me. I know he loves me. He's been waiting for me (no pressure) and he deserves it, I'm just scared he'll be over me afterwards! (I have trust issues, I know, lol). But if I don't? When the f*ck will he get laid?? & by who, if not me?? LOL thanks for the advice
I'm 20 & a virgin (impossible, right?) & have been dating my current bf for a year & a half now. He's been so patient w/ me which I appreciate A LOT.. I know it must be hard for him (no pun intended! haa) He's 26.
No he's not been getting any side action (again, I know it's unheard of). We've been dating long distance for a good chunk of our relationship (we met in college & he was studying here from the UK but he had to go back...)
He's coming to see me for my bday in April, for a week, and I really wanna share something special w/ him b/c he means SO much to me. For us to have stayed strong and stay committed, with the distance and all, just proves to me that we have something special. I mean there's no point in us wasting time if we didn't mean anything to each other.
So yeah, I wanna have sex with him, and I'm not asking on Y!A whether or not I should do it so don't assume anything. It's just that he'll only be here for a week and I don't wanna seem "easy" by doing it w/ him in such a short time frame, ya know?
I know he won't think that way, but I'm used to being the "girl that got away" lol, I'm used to NOT having sex/making them wait. Maybe that's why I feel this way.
Anyways, he's done so much for me. I know he loves me. He's been waiting for me (no pressure) and he deserves it, I'm just scared he'll be over me afterwards! (I have trust issues, I know, lol). But if I don't? When the f*ck will he get laid?? & by who, if not me?? LOL thanks for the advice