guys, does he think we're dating if we had sex?

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ibmiranda

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Ok, well this is kind of a complicated thing. I have known this guy for like 2 months now and we starting hanging out a couple weeks ago. There was some chemistry and he took me out a couple times but talked about sex a bit and how he didn't want a committed relationship. I told him there were a lot of guys that would love to have a chance with me. Well on our last date he kissed me, one thing led to another and we ended up having sex, yes slutty, but spur of the moment type thing. He came over the next day and hung out with me and my family and my dad said it was obvious that he thought i was his girlfriend. I so don't want to come right out and be like "are we dating because we had sex?" I feel like we kind of have a deeper connection though, not necessarily dating. So, guys, when you have sex with a girl do you assume your dating? Would you continue to talk to her or hang out with her if she was just a booty call?
(info that may or may not be important); were both 19, and i was his 2nd he was my 3rd
 
He probably likes you and just wanted to express that he didnt want a commit to agree with you (if you also said this). Deep connection? had sex but not enough to date him? thats weird. If i had sex with a girl i like i would think we were dating. If i didnt like her i would feel weird cause then i would be wondering crap i wonder if she thinks were dating
 
I would say that based on your story, he probably feels he has what he wants. ie. A noncommittal relationship (which leaves him options) and sex.
He can hang with you and your folks. Be the BF , bed you, and then if he feels restless walk away saying 'hey we were never committed".

You having sex with him implies to him that you agree to this 'open' agreement.
 
If he was interested in meeting your family I would say he thinks a lot of you. Go slow and see what happens.
 
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