guys and girls sex question? im kinda freaked out?

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ok last night i slept with a guy for the first time
and during it he put his hands around my neck
it felt like he was going to strangle me!?
is that normal or should i be worried about it??
i know how weird it sounds
 
Well i think it is quite normal thats what some boys are into but if you are not into it You should speak to him and tell him you dont like it and that it is making you feel weird he might understand
 
i think it was his idea of being sexy, girls like their neck touched, but in the heat of passions, he may have done ti abit to harshly. if it was a cause for concern, talk to him about it.

all the best ox
 
Things like that are becoming more normal than you'd think. My ex used to enjoy it when I did that during sex, and not just putting my hands around her neck, but actually choking her. If you're going to do stuff like that together I'd suggest talking about it so that you and him are both clear on your boundaries, and setting up some kind of signal or safe word to get him to stop doing something if it starts to bother you or you feel it's going too far is a good idea.
 
He grabbed your throat?
maybe you should ask him what that was about..?
 
Itg does sound weird and No it si not normal. Must have been a shocker for the first time slepping wtih a guy. People that do that are going to continue to keep doing it because they are into thins like that and it will only progress into other stuff. You need to let that guy go!
 
Believe it or not, such an action is pretty natural among not only humans, but other primates and mammals as well. I can't remember why, but it is fairly normal for a guy to restrain the girl someway during sex, though among humans it's not nearly as common. In your case, he was probably into it so much his primal brain completely took over and he did that, but don't be alarmed, he wasn't trying to hurt you.
It actually should mean you're just really good.
 
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