he said he wanted to wait till he had a job. said that he was scared to fall for someone adn that he was starting to fall for me, his mom thinks i was using him which makes me want to kill her, and that he wants to wait till he gets a job. well i have a new bf now and he has not spoken to me since i found out. do i loose my man and beg him back or do i stay with my man and give him space or what do i do? if a friendship is all i can get ill take it but he wont even speak to me......