Growing up blows

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After reading down, I'd say it's a 50/50 deal. As you get older you typically deal with more and more shit, but there are also more and more things you'll enjoy. This is always hard to hear so I'll tread lightly, but there is always more than one person for everybody. So even though it blows to have your girl move away, your life's not coming to an end. And as hard as it seems, your body and mind can adjust to the shittiest of situations, so matter how hard you're being pushed now, you'll eventually adapt and everything will become second nature to you. Take 'er easy and breathe.
 
I've found that you can live through just about anything as long as you're either working towards something, or there is a time limit on the experience, and you know that it will end eventually. Set your sights on your goals, and you can live through the shit that happens while you're getting there.

I take it that your girlfriend is still living with her parents, and that's why she's having to move? Again, there's a time limit on that, and when she's self-supporting, she can live wherever she wants. Long distance relationships are hard to sustain, but they can work, if you both want it to.

I don't mean to sound all Pollyanna. Growing up and accepting the associated responsibilities of adulthood isn't easy. But the rewards are definitely worth it.
 
You know, life is a bitch. It sucks, it's stressful, and it eventualy kills you. But in the meantime, while you are here, charge at the motherfucker like the goddamned Light Brigade. In the end, you won't survive, but you can sure as all hell leave your mark.
 
Mmm... I feel you man. I'm 16 and I'm about to move out of my Mom's house for good. I'll spare you the details but as somebody going through a similar situation, it's hard but if you're like me you can already see the rewards. If you can't, then rest assured, they're there if you work hard!

Good luck. :)
 
Hey, I remember you. Quite well, in fact.

Listen bro, I'm somewhat in that position. The difference is that my childhood was fucking miserable, I'm having suppressed memories that come back to me PTSD style, and worse, I can't remember a thing about growing up.

I want to be put under hypnosis, but I truly feel that may do more harm than good.

In fact, I never even had a childhood, as far as I am concerned. I don't remember shit. I can thank the psychiatric industry for that, you fuckers!

I am also the same age as you, very mature for a 17 year old, and I also feel like a portion of my life is gone.
 
I had my childhood, a very good one in fact. I was immature having the time of my life i suppose. Lifes changed, quickly. Ive went from being the immature brat that everyone knew around town and on the internet to being a 17 year old military school graduate that works 55 hours a week (My hours got boosted up since my first post -.-)

The one thing that made me happy, was when my boss handed me 450 cash. But then i thought about it, what do i want to do with money, i have no use for it. I wake up, go to work, come home, sit on the computer and relax. Then i go to sleep, wake up and do the same thing.

Im doing nothing but saving money, thats it. working almost seems pointless, but i guess one day Joanie will come back, and ill have kids to spend money on. Or ill save it all until i find something i want. Or my mom will eventually die unfortunately, and the 3 bedroom house we just moved into will be in my name, so i will have a mortage.

Theres too many stressful things in life. Its came down to the 1 thing that i can always love to do, is walk downstairs take my clothes off and go to sleep.


I wish i could sleep forever, but i guess ill have time for that when im dead.


Thanks for the rep points and the replys everyones given.

Im going to sleep :)
 
I don't know, DG. I don't really like the ones in white coats that carry tranquilizers in syringes. They make me really nervous.

I don't much like cop-types either.

Uniforms, eh? Uhm....the Fed Ex guy is kind of cute! :thumbsup:
 
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