well, like alot of 'slower' more 'caring' guys you often are going to end up as the friend and safty net, good for hitting on rebounds (sp?). basicallyget to know the girl before your friends do, get a head start and its easy from then on.
(this is writen from a cynical, back stabbing person's point of veiw, my veiw on life is, you screw me over ill get you back ten fold)