God DAMNIT

Its such a "fuck me in the ass" situation. I either don't talk to girls, and my friends do, or I talk to them and my friends go out of their way to flirt with them.
 
if all you are going to do is just talk about liking them, what's the big deal?
your friends take action, and you evidentally don't.

also you have stated before that sex is not important to you. that's real sweet and all, but girls want guys that think they are 'it', so maybe you give off a vibe of not caring about that aspect of a relationship. you may be branded 'the friend', and that's something only you can change.

if you put forth the same effort you have in here, you'd have a girl.
 
Well if Chad's anything like me, hes a procrastinator who believes he has an entire freaking school year to ask these girls out, why rush?

Some people just aren't that desperate.
 
i understand that logic, but life goes on outside of school and you you have no idea how long you'll have an opportunity, so you have to go for it.



if he did more it would not be considered desperate. i imagine he just needs a boost to get over the initial fear of rejection. sure he may get rejected sometimes, but big deal. everybody will and we get over it. girls can smell confidence and lack of. more times than not, confidence wins. chad has a good wit and is not an ugly guy, so he needs to toot his own horn around girls he is interested in.
 
"honk! honk! chad is here, look at me! look at me!" works a whole lot better than...

"hi, my name's chad and i'm gonna sit in the corner here and if you would like to talk to me you can but if you don't i'll twiddle my thumbs or get my game boy outa my bag"

ditto on what other's said, confidence is everything with women. e.g. my mate walked up to a girl in a bar and goes "can i have your number" she replies "you're a bit cocky aren't ya!" he goes "yes" and she gives him her number. Bear in mind, this only works with proper fit girls, you have to know the type of girl you're going after and use that. But most of all be yourself, if your not yourself there's no point in pulling women because the relationship is gonna suck because your not a good match.
 
Simple - You smell.


Actually you are probably to shy and slow to talk to the girl before your friends.

No need to hurry - little girls are good at giving headaches and spending your money...oh who the hell am I trying to kid...grown woman are good at that too.

Might want to try blow up dolls. One time fee. :P
 
My first thought was that you need new friends. Then I decided that you just need to continue to be you. Eventually the girls will realize that you are the real deal and your friends are just players.

Make the girls laugh, smile so it reaches them baby blues, and relax. They are going to love you!
 
If you're a chill, layed back, cool and genuinly nice guy, don't expect to be the most popular with the females in high school.

I have pretty much the same problem yah. It's fucked up, alot of the females I talk to come to me about their problems and shit for a shoulder to cry on and all that dramatic bullshit and then they constantly compliment pretty much every aspect of my being and about how much better they feel after having talked to me. But for some reason they prefer the dramatics of dating immature fag-asses who pull their hair and cheat on them.

I'm hoping this is just a high school mentality and in the real world nice guys don't continue to finish last.

But, the only real advice I think I can give you is to just kind of. . . try not to worry about it. There is a middle ground between not trying hard enough and trying too hard. Try to find the middle ground and something will eventually happen.

To the ladies out there reading this post, don't take it the wrong way. Just pointing out what I've noticed over my high school years. I'm sure you have a plenty gripes about the opposite gender as well.
 
Couldn't have said it better myself. You'll find a chic who says she likes meek and mild guys, then they'll dump the guy for the more confident guy. She has a pussy, she doesn't need another one. Sensitivity = yes. Pushover = NO. you have to think your the tits to get the tits. I dont mean you'll grow tits...well, you get what I mean.
 
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