God damn it I need help again

Depending on your age you might want to wait a bit, this is b/c of their attitude, not reality. What I mean is, they might try to make the excuse that you are going through a phase or are too young to really know, even though that isn't the case.

Since they have a lot of preconceived notions of what "gay" is then you might be the one to change some of said notions, this might take awhile as they might be shocked and disappointed at first.

And wft is with the "are you the man or the woman" in the relationship? What does that even mean? My best relationship is where we worked mostly as a partnership and as far as sex, sometimes I was the boss and sometimes he was.
 
It was just a stupid question. I was only interested, since I've heard about this somewhere. About one person being more dominant than the other, generally speaking.
 
lolguy, that was some great advice from your Uncle gehtfuct. I couldn't have said it better. Nor will I expand on it. Take his advice. It worked for him. ;)
 
A phobia is a fear, yes; the term homophobia has taken on a meaning that is akin to what racism is to race. The meaning of words constantly evolve. Like I said you can be either without having outright hatred. I never insinuated that homophobia = hatred toward gays (or racism = hatred based on race). Any sort of bigotry generally has fear at its root, which manifests into hate. The woman who locks her car door when a black person gets close is racist, but that doesn't mean she hates black people.
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@lolguy: I'd tell someone (besides strangers on the internet). If you have trusted friends, or a school counselor or someone you can tell it'll help your mental health a lot.
 
Hey, if you enjoy watching gay pron, that's cool. Personally it creeps me out. But I don't watch my friends cornhole each other, either.
 
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