Bryan W Gaint
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Then start respecting other peoples' choice to be hateful! 
God damn it I need help again
- Thread starter Bryan W Gaint
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I must admit I never understood the whole dramatic coming out thing.
My mom found out I liked girls when I introduced her to one of my girlfriends. I gave no grand speeches or demanded that she accept that I was bisexual it was simply, "Hey mom my girlfriend April is going to spend the night ok?" My mom said, "Girlfriend like friend or girlfriend like...?" I said, "Girlfriend like."
That was the end of our conversation about it and to this day some fifteen years later we don't talk about the gender of the person I'm seeing; we just talk about them.
Maybe that's why parents get so pissed off; the drama of it all?
If my daughter said to me, "Mom, (insert a chicks name here) and I are going to go see an Ani DiFranco concert and then I'm going to spend the night at her house," I'd know what time it was.
My mom found out I liked girls when I introduced her to one of my girlfriends. I gave no grand speeches or demanded that she accept that I was bisexual it was simply, "Hey mom my girlfriend April is going to spend the night ok?" My mom said, "Girlfriend like friend or girlfriend like...?" I said, "Girlfriend like."
That was the end of our conversation about it and to this day some fifteen years later we don't talk about the gender of the person I'm seeing; we just talk about them.
Maybe that's why parents get so pissed off; the drama of it all?
If my daughter said to me, "Mom, (insert a chicks name here) and I are going to go see an Ani DiFranco concert and then I'm going to spend the night at her house," I'd know what time it was.
Mom to Matt & Makayla
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Approximately 6:30pm?
love my kids
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Descent, is that you?
soulz solace
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:yeahthat:
Thoo-Nee-Ah
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Descent, is that you?
stoiccrying
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Descent, is that you?
brittany (:
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Homophobia is to sexuality what racism is to race. You can be homophobic without being outright hateful, just as you be racist without being outright hateful.
While I really can't relate, unless you have good reason to suspect a violent reaction, I've heard from most that the grass is really greener on the other side, that is that it's more painful to hide who you are than to deal with the reactions of revealing it.
While I really can't relate, unless you have good reason to suspect a violent reaction, I've heard from most that the grass is really greener on the other side, that is that it's more painful to hide who you are than to deal with the reactions of revealing it.
anonymous whisperer
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I would expect a very violent reaction.
lilchikka2005
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/me hugs lolguy
You know your parents the best, so you'll know how and when to tell them. Don't worry, as long as you are happy with who you are, that's the most important thing.
I can only wish you the best of lucks.
You know your parents the best, so you'll know how and when to tell them. Don't worry, as long as you are happy with who you are, that's the most important thing.
I can only wish you the best of lucks.
Alexa Marie
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You are a fucking idiot.
Phobia means fear.
I am homophobic. Gay sex creeps me the fuck out. So, I don't allow it in my house and I don't watch gay porn. Because man on man gay sex is disgusting to me.
I have homosexual friends who I am not afraid or creeped out by. Because whet people do is their own business. I see no reason why that should mean that because homosexual sexuality creeps me out that I HAVE to HATE homosexual people. Because I do not hate homosexual people.
Go figure.
LOLGUY:
Then perhaps you should remove those people from your life. Yes, sometimes if you do something that goes against the societal grain you will be persecuted for it. You can not change people. You can only control how you let it affect you.
Phobia means fear.
I am homophobic. Gay sex creeps me the fuck out. So, I don't allow it in my house and I don't watch gay porn. Because man on man gay sex is disgusting to me.
I have homosexual friends who I am not afraid or creeped out by. Because whet people do is their own business. I see no reason why that should mean that because homosexual sexuality creeps me out that I HAVE to HATE homosexual people. Because I do not hate homosexual people.
Go figure.
LOLGUY:
Then perhaps you should remove those people from your life. Yes, sometimes if you do something that goes against the societal grain you will be persecuted for it. You can not change people. You can only control how you let it affect you.