Girly question bout sex :S?

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i am 14 yrs old an am wid a lad who is nearly 16, we have been together for almost 2 weeks, we do the usual lil stuff but now he has been talkin bout losing our virginities togetha... i need to no how i know i feel ready an need help makin the decision, i think i have already fell for the lad but the fact that he is moving things quickly is scary! need help with this please x
thnx peeps u've helped mi loads x x
 
dont do it, two weeks and he wants to have sex? then thats all he wants
dont fall for it
 
mama
ur to young
if u have sex at this age it can seriously screw u ur life
liek if u have sex at an early age u cant lose intrest in anything else
sex if really for the matured mind and not for that immature u feel me
its only been 2 weeks
try lasting alot longer before u make a decision that can mess up or make ur life
 
if your not ready just say no. two weeks isnt a long time. im waiting until marriage to have sex
 
You will know if you're ready. I think you are too young. If he pressures you then he really doesn't care about you. Think about the after part...you can never get it back. Who cares if he gets mad. Then he was not worth it.
 
Bah 8-O
To weeks! no...no....no That is way to soon. You will regret giving it up more than you will waiting.
 
Well, I would say that if you think you love him, and if it is something you will not regret, then go for it.
14 is a little young, but I was 14 when I lost my virginity. I was dating my boyfriend who was 17, but we were dating for 3 months before we lost it to each other.
I would say just roll with it, and when it is time, you will know and you will just feel ready. It will be mutual!
 
if you need to ask. you aren't ready. you need to feel safe with someone and comfortable to be able to do anything for the first time. and sex is a huge thing to do with someone who you've only been with for 2 weeks. if you feel at all pressured into doing it by him, then he isn't a good boyfriend. if you decide that you don't want to he should respect your decision and wait until you're ready. you're still young, there really is no hurry. Its best to wait until you're in love or at least falling in love with someone, and be careful not to mistake lust with love, as a lot of people do.
don't do it if you find the thought scary.
 
Don't make a decision you will regret. In other words, don't lose your virginity. Once you lose it, it's gone. Often guys try to convince girls that it's the right thing to do, when really, they are just saying it because they want the physical gratification. I'm still a virgin and am waiting for my wedding night. I'm proud of it too. :) I'll be praying for you.
 
Your having second thoughts which means you ARE NOT ready for sex. Tell him that and if he doesn't take no for an answer, drop him, don't give in and give him what he wants. I made that mistake and I regret it terribly. Your young, and you haven't been with this guy that long. I would at least wait a couple months before even considering having sex with him.
 
dont let him do anything your uncomfortable with!! 2 weeks is very little time, especially to have a sexual realtionship.
and also he's older then you and thats scary.
im 14 also and if i were you i would just stay away from him....
 
Liike are u SEROILUS .. its only been 2 WEEKS ... I HATE TO BREAK IT TO U BUT HES GOING WOUT WITH U TO GET INTO UR PANTS ...... Have fun gettin pregnanat =) hoeee
 
sorry to say but if your on here asking for advice on sex its obvious your not ready and he is moving way to fast
 
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