Girls: should I text her or not?

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Matthew

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This girl that I've been seeing has been having some really bad family problems. So bad she moved out of the house for a week (she's 18) until he brother leaves back to the marines.

She hasn't been answering my texts or calls lately and she doesn't want to discuss her family problems with me or get me involved. But yesterday she got hurt at soccer really bad, like she can barely move and she's in a lot of pain.

So I was gonna wait until her brother left and everything was back to normal before I texted her, but since she got hurt this bad, should I text her and if so what should I say?
She also said lately that because of this family shit she doesn't want a relationship right now until all this is over. If that means anything for this. I think she is being honest when she says she still likes me.
 
I would just send her an open ended message asking if there is anything you can do. Don't expect a response, just be there for her if she needs you. Hopefully she'll come around soon.

Also, be prepared to listen because eventually, she probably will want to talk to somebody understanding. I've often heard the mistaken men make when listening to women is to try and fix all their problems, so don't try unless she directly asks you too. Just be her friend and her support when she is ready!
 
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