Girls please help ! (sex,birthcontrol)?

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Stephaniee

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Hi i'm almost 15 and I want to have sex with this guy I've been talking to for 3 years I really like him and he says he likes me and we've hooked up before meaning making out feeling each other and yea I am ready for sex I know it my mom bought me yasmin bc and Im going to start it next week cause I'm waiting for my period I wanted to know if I should use a condom too with the bc and I know I have to wait a month for It to kick in. Also I finger my self with one finger and it doesn't feel good I've tried two but it hurts to bad will it feel good having sex? Cause it doest with my finger ?!? Also how bad will it hurt I'm really scared it's going to hurt bad? Will it? Did it for you ?
Thanks for all the help!

Ps please don't tell me not to have sex I really feel im ready!
I'm on my I touch so that's y it sounds like I have bad grammer cause it's hard to write long things so I was trying to hurry!


Also yea yasmin had a recall but my doctor
Said this one was the best for me
My mom gave me it cause my sister is almost 17 and she just had a baby in July
 
Well i mean, your ready when your ready, and nothing we say can stop you, but i think you should be dating smoeone before you take that stop.

sadly, it will hurt for your first time, my first time it hurt terribly bad, but it gets better fast.

you should still use a condom because bc doesn't always accurately work and condoms help you frmo stds and etc.

make sure you are really ready

and i think yasmin had a recall on it..
 
i can see that me telling you not to go through with it isn't going to help but from someone who started young i think you should think about it some more, however if you still feel that its the right thing to do you should deffinetly use a condom. i was 17 when i got pregnant & was on the pill so its not 100% effective. its good that your mom got you the pill, its nice to have a mom you can talk to about those kind of things, have you told her that you were ready and want to do it with this guy?
 
You are not ready... this guy likes you? so your willing to just give your virginity to him! AND NO sex wont feel good for awhile especially if you are really tight down there. its gonna take 10-20 times b4 u enjoy it! WHAT mother gets there 15 year old a bc, she should have got you a babysitter!
 
Use all the birth control methods that you can. And remember that pills don't protect you from STD's.

A penis is softer and more flexible than a finger, so the experience will probably be different. Plus another's touch always feels better than your own. Much depends on your partner.

You should know that if you were really ready for sex, you wouldn't be so concerned over how it will feel and whether it will hurt. When you're really ready, these things are the farthest from your mind. It sounds like you just want to have sex for its own sake and not because of how you feel about your boyfriend.
 
I'm sorry. I don't wanna sound rude here, but you sound very immature, judging from your horrible grammar.
I wouldn't have sex if i were you, your too young and it will give you a horrible reputation. Being called a slut, i doubt you want that. And do you really know for sure, this guy? He could be using you.
Seriously, think about this.
 
Use all the birth control methods that you can. And remember that pills don't protect you from STD's.

A penis is softer and more flexible than a finger, so the experience will probably be different. Plus another's touch always feels better than your own. Much depends on your partner.

You should know that if you were really ready for sex, you wouldn't be so concerned over how it will feel and whether it will hurt. When you're really ready, these things are the farthest from your mind. It sounds like you just want to have sex for its own sake and not because of how you feel about your boyfriend.
 
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