zobiusZarQ
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HELP ..10 pts for best answer!!? So I met her and we became fast friends. She is VERY religious and invited me to her church, which I go to all the time now. We sit next to each other every service too and people refer to me as her boyfriend. She even joked with the pastor that it was a sign from God when she saw me sitting in her seat the first day I went. And if I miss a service, she'll text me asking if everything is ok... She also was asked by a friend of ours how she met me and she said she started to talk to me cause she thought I was a "cute boy" and then realized I have a "great personality" but told him not to tell me. She was even told by some girls at church that it's obvious I like her and she went into denial like "noo way...you gotta be kidding me, i dont believe you!" and changed the subject...this was after they told her they liked me. She got me a birthday card with a Pinocchio line that says "To become a real boy you must prove yourself brave truthful and unselfish" and then she wrote about how she loves seeing God move in me and wrote "Happy Birthday....to a 'Real Boy'" Do you think THAT is a sign...or nothing? We also bicker a bit, nothing ever personal or anything, just light fun arguments like I told her that i'll bring my bro to church and said that her and her sister can each have us, and she's like "one is enough to handle!" I feel like she HAS to know I like her... We also bicker...like she'll say "you really know how to push my buttons." and i'll say "yes, but i do it because you are cute when you're mad" (is that a bad thing??)
Sometimes I feel like she likes me, other times I feel like she does not. Like she doesn't go out of her way to sit next to me, or walk with me or be with me even though I ask her occasionally to go out to lunch etc... what's going on!? I know she's SO busy with school and everything and she really doesn't go out much but..again..what's going on?! She also introduces me as her "friend" (though I dont know what else she'd call me..) She also has not dated any guy I know since I've known her, and she never talks about other guys...I see her about 3+ times a week (church, choir, this club we're in together...) but I rarely spend time alone with her..I HAVE taken her out to lunch, ice skating but it seems like it's hard to do! She did invite me to our school opera but I couldnt go cause I was already busy
please no "just ask her out" or "just tell her" answers. I know that's the best thing to do, but i'm just curious what an unbiased third party (like yourselves) would think.
Sometimes I feel like she likes me, other times I feel like she does not. Like she doesn't go out of her way to sit next to me, or walk with me or be with me even though I ask her occasionally to go out to lunch etc... what's going on!? I know she's SO busy with school and everything and she really doesn't go out much but..again..what's going on?! She also introduces me as her "friend" (though I dont know what else she'd call me..) She also has not dated any guy I know since I've known her, and she never talks about other guys...I see her about 3+ times a week (church, choir, this club we're in together...) but I rarely spend time alone with her..I HAVE taken her out to lunch, ice skating but it seems like it's hard to do! She did invite me to our school opera but I couldnt go cause I was already busy
please no "just ask her out" or "just tell her" answers. I know that's the best thing to do, but i'm just curious what an unbiased third party (like yourselves) would think.