Dizzy Dean
New member
guys at the club? I have been dating this girl for several months. We get along great and talk about things freely. We go out with groups of friends, both guys and girls (mostly girls) to the club often. She likes to joke and be flirtatious with other guys, and sometimes dances with other guys.
I can't help it, but it bothers me when she does that...not cuz she is flirting with another guy, but because a guy may think she stands a chance and grab her ass or try to kiss her or something.
She never EVER gives out her number to a guy when we go out, even before we started dating...I met her through a group of friends through school. She also never grinds with guys ever, even before we started dating. We also salsa dance sometimes and she dances with other guys sometimes very closely and touchy feely.
I spoke with her about it and she told me not to worry because 'dancing with other guys really doesn't mean anything at all', I believe her, but if it dosn't mean anything, than why do it in the first place?
What is your perspective on this situation? i.e-what i should do or say when i see her dancing with some other guy, what if it gets out of hand... and should i be worried. Right now i just laugh it off because nothing has happened yet to make me upset.
I can't help it, but it bothers me when she does that...not cuz she is flirting with another guy, but because a guy may think she stands a chance and grab her ass or try to kiss her or something.
She never EVER gives out her number to a guy when we go out, even before we started dating...I met her through a group of friends through school. She also never grinds with guys ever, even before we started dating. We also salsa dance sometimes and she dances with other guys sometimes very closely and touchy feely.
I spoke with her about it and she told me not to worry because 'dancing with other guys really doesn't mean anything at all', I believe her, but if it dosn't mean anything, than why do it in the first place?
What is your perspective on this situation? i.e-what i should do or say when i see her dancing with some other guy, what if it gets out of hand... and should i be worried. Right now i just laugh it off because nothing has happened yet to make me upset.