Ok. So i was just talking to her, saying how in math my teacher gives extra credit if your in activites. The highest points being 15 for playing a sport or being in band. And i think thats right. Sports take dedication, effort, time. She totally disagrees. Now get this, she has never played a sport, only knows from what she sees. She says how coaches only care about stars and nobody else. How when people say it takes endurance, dedication, etc, that it is bull. Her example "when people in the stands watch somebody throw a football 2 feet to a person who goes for the touchdown, who will they remember? the person who ran. the star." I was just thinking, "WTF is she saying!?" Like the whole time i said ok, even though i totally wanted to prove her wrong but it would start a fight. Its like what if i told her art is useless, you dont need it to make a living. I have no experience of art. She does. I have played sports for 8 years. I know how everything goes down. So i made up some bs agreement, but really it bothers me she said it. Should i tell her the truth or forget about it? And do you think she is talking out of her ***? And i know all hell will brake loose when i say something.
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Girlfriends rant irks me?
- Thread starter Aidan
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Brittney O
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Okay, I don't really understand what you're trying to say about your girlfriend, but I agree and don't think it's right that your teacher gives extra credit for being in activities. That costs money, and some families just don't have the extra money to put their children in school sports or activities, but that shouldn't put them at a disadvantage.. Extra credit should be given by doing extra school work
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MusicFreak2oo8
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okay thats messed up. i dont play sports professionally but i love playing when i have some free time with friends and or family. its fun
she has seriously never played sports? what is she, 2? and even 2 year olds have started some sports. jeez, this girl needs t get out and do things she thought she would never do.
even if its gonna be kinda hell, you need to say something. its just wrong. has she ever heard of the expression, "Dont judge a book by its cover?" that applies perfectally in this situation. i mean, how can you judge something like that if youve never tried it? it really is difficult.
tell her that when she does art work, it challenges her mind mentally. but with sports its physically and takes all strength. plus, good exercise.
she needs to understand that both of them are very important.
football isnt a waste of time and useless.
and art isnt stupid or useless either.
if they were, we humans would probably be living in hell by now
hahaha
convince her to try some sports with you so she is experienced.
tell her that, "if you dont like it, fine. thats your opinion, but dont say it doesnt take effort, concentration, and dedication to be good. just like art. it takes all your focus, dedication and gentleness to be good. they are all the same but in different ways."
get her to understand cuz it does make any sense to me that she wouldnt like sports just by watching. maybe its just boring when she just watches.
i know i do. i dont like watching sports on tv but i do like actually going out and doing it. its fun!
good luck! TALK SOME SENSE INTO THAT GIRL!!!
she has seriously never played sports? what is she, 2? and even 2 year olds have started some sports. jeez, this girl needs t get out and do things she thought she would never do.
even if its gonna be kinda hell, you need to say something. its just wrong. has she ever heard of the expression, "Dont judge a book by its cover?" that applies perfectally in this situation. i mean, how can you judge something like that if youve never tried it? it really is difficult.
tell her that when she does art work, it challenges her mind mentally. but with sports its physically and takes all strength. plus, good exercise.
she needs to understand that both of them are very important.
football isnt a waste of time and useless.
and art isnt stupid or useless either.
if they were, we humans would probably be living in hell by now
hahaha
convince her to try some sports with you so she is experienced.
tell her that, "if you dont like it, fine. thats your opinion, but dont say it doesnt take effort, concentration, and dedication to be good. just like art. it takes all your focus, dedication and gentleness to be good. they are all the same but in different ways."
get her to understand cuz it does make any sense to me that she wouldnt like sports just by watching. maybe its just boring when she just watches.
i know i do. i dont like watching sports on tv but i do like actually going out and doing it. its fun!
good luck! TALK SOME SENSE INTO THAT GIRL!!!