Girlfriends mother found explicit photos of me on her cellphone.?

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Ok, have a situation.

I've been with this girl for many years now about three, I've known her for about seven. But it's been kept a secret because she is in a strong religious family and her mother is very strict. Her mom just recently found some pictures my girl and I have been sending back in forth, they are extremely sexually explicit in nature. Her mom has came down on her pretty hard and forced to end our relationship. I've never spoken to her mother, because she didn't know me. But her mother called and left a voicemail, extremely upset. She mentioned she didn't need an explanation from me but I can call her back and she was deeply disgusted with the behavior.

Things will be over soon, today I assume and I understand.

Should I call her mother back and tell her I do apologize and she'll never hear from me again?
Well the faith is extremely strict.

I'm 24 she's 21.
 
I would call her mother and apologize. Be sincere. Don't let her lecture you though.

I wouldn't end the relationship just because her mom doesn't approve, nor would I tell her that you won't contact her daughter ever again.

Obviously you and the girl like each other and she was sending pictures too so she's not innocent and happy to be involved in such a relationship.

You two should control your own lives and relationships.
 
I personally think this is BS she is grown and her mother has no rite to be going through her phone in the first place. if ur girl is woman enough she would stand up for ur relationship i would understand if y'all were 14 or so...idk i would call her mother and try to talk her the right way and tell her u apologize that u offend her but you love her and don't want to end it over some pics trust me if you talk to her the rite way u might be surprised with her reaction
 
You two are adults - why on earth is one of your parents dictating what you can and cannot do? That's kind of sad. You both need to be big grown ups and do your own thing.
 
ok well depending on how old u are i dont think u necessarily have to break up with her. but if u guys are underage then i think the smart thing to do would be call the mom and apologize even send her a card and some flowers to show how sorry u are. and promise to never do it again and show her u understand why she is upset. that way maybe she will think you arnt too bad and might let her daughter see you again. if you are over 18 i would call her and apologize but dont promise not to see her daughter anymore since its a free country. just say you are sorry she had to see that and u will be more responsible in the furutre and would like the change to prove u are a good guy.
 
dude call back. say sry that she had to see th photos. but u and ur gf are adults and her mom had NO!! right to be going in her stuff since she 21 years old. Know idc how strict her mom is it ur gf life and she need to but out
 
You're really just going to back away from the relationship like that? You've been with her for that long. You can't just let her mother dictate who she will and will not date. Call her and apologize, but make your feelings for her daughter known. There's a time to be tact, and there's a time to stick up for yourself. Tell her you're sorry about the pictures, but that her anger isn't going to keep you away from her daughter.
 
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