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Steve Spikes
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Alright, I just started seeing a girl,
So far so good.
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Seriously though we don't live together, so I mean it's not like on a consistent-in your face basis, but she from time to time, like every month will get in these real emotional, sad phases, no she's not on her period or anything. But, she'll get to the point of depressing me, she's not suicidal by any means either.
But I did look it up, and see good ways to cope with it, such as being supportive of her, knowing when to back off, things of that nature.
Anyways, she's in one of those moods now, and will admit it to me, she sees a councilor and all, which I'll go with her, but rarely go in with her, until she asks. I don't want to pressure her and ask like if there was anything specific in her childhood that may have had a repercussion, to her now with her moods, or if she was diagnosed with something.
I just want to give it time, until we get some more time of understanding of one another, she's real special to me, so therefore I'm very supportive of her, if she gets even the slightest bit of upset I'll cheer her up and tell her like "Wow, you had that, don't sweat it." It's just things like that, but when she gets in these moods, she's very non sociable, to everyone.
I just want to know if I'm doing the right thing, or if theirs some tips I could use to help me, thanks everyone.
So far so good.
. Seriously though we don't live together, so I mean it's not like on a consistent-in your face basis, but she from time to time, like every month will get in these real emotional, sad phases, no she's not on her period or anything. But, she'll get to the point of depressing me, she's not suicidal by any means either.
But I did look it up, and see good ways to cope with it, such as being supportive of her, knowing when to back off, things of that nature.
Anyways, she's in one of those moods now, and will admit it to me, she sees a councilor and all, which I'll go with her, but rarely go in with her, until she asks. I don't want to pressure her and ask like if there was anything specific in her childhood that may have had a repercussion, to her now with her moods, or if she was diagnosed with something.
I just want to give it time, until we get some more time of understanding of one another, she's real special to me, so therefore I'm very supportive of her, if she gets even the slightest bit of upset I'll cheer her up and tell her like "Wow, you had that, don't sweat it." It's just things like that, but when she gets in these moods, she's very non sociable, to everyone.
I just want to know if I'm doing the right thing, or if theirs some tips I could use to help me, thanks everyone.