sunnymuffin
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My girlfriend has told me about the experiences she and her ex boyfriend had. She says they didn't have sex but they did do some "touching" below the waist. I don't know why she would tell me this. She doesn't often talk about her ex (actually never honestly). I'm sure she doesn't have feelings for him, this discussion actually came up from a different topic. However, her doing things with her ex isn't the problem for me. The problem came about when she made it clear that she felt "bad" about what she had done before. Apparently she feels really guilty about it even though it wasn't even anything bad?? (However, she admits she liked it at the time. she just felt bad about doing some things). She says she doesn't want to do that stuff again. At one point actually saying she wont. I actually like her personality, it's not all about her physical appearance to me, but i can't help but find issue with this. I don't know how she can expect me to not get jealous. No matter how much she says she cares about me, I'm going to feel like I'm missing something her ex had, or that she will never like me as much as she did him because she wont do this. If she did it before why is it different now? suddenly she wants to be high and holy? do you think that if she's done it before she'll do it again so i'll have nothing to worry about(as a few of my friends seem to think)? or do you think im just being shallow? (im really not, what she did really isn't that bad, it's not like i dont respect her thoughts on this, i just think it's crazy to tell me what she did with another guy, then expect me not to get jealous)