OK here goes. Me and my girlfriend have being going out for 13 months....and things are great basically between us....she is the love of my life....etc etc....ok so heres the problem.....unfortuntly with the bad economic times were in atm im majorly struggling for money...i do have a job however the hours are so inconsistant that my pay chek can very up to 200% weekly. we also work together in the same job me and my girl. she is currently also studying for a university degree fulltime as well.....whtha i have applied to become a police officer with is currently in the procees albeit with a few difficulties relating to my eyesight. so heres the problem she keeps nagging at me that i need to find a job that is full time....i look everywhere daily etc on the net etc and have even applied with a recruitment company to get mre consistent hours however this comes to nothing.. i also help her out with her uni by dropping her of and piking her up covering her shifts wen shes needing to study etc...yet she continues to nag and say im not doing anything with my life wen i have applied for something with the police....wich i cant speed up unfortunatly...wat am i to do...??? i have tryed talking to her and saying its not my fault yet she just calls me a faluire.
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Girlfriend nagging and arguing with me all the time and making me feel bad?
- Thread starter John
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You need to pull the reins on this girl.
Make it clear that you both work, you cover her shifts when she needs to study and you support her goals of getting a good degree, and you do regularly apply and inquire on getting more hours to make ends meet....which also includes taking her and picking her up from school which is time away from work.
She got no grounds to tell you that you are not being supportive of her schooling or making money to pay for both of you.
A relationship is based on trust, honesty, communication and of course support of each other....which is not happening.
Either she needs to back off from playing the nagging wife or mother, or it is time to move on to someone more supportive and caring.
Make it clear that you both work, you cover her shifts when she needs to study and you support her goals of getting a good degree, and you do regularly apply and inquire on getting more hours to make ends meet....which also includes taking her and picking her up from school which is time away from work.
She got no grounds to tell you that you are not being supportive of her schooling or making money to pay for both of you.
A relationship is based on trust, honesty, communication and of course support of each other....which is not happening.
Either she needs to back off from playing the nagging wife or mother, or it is time to move on to someone more supportive and caring.