girl really quiet during sex - almost silent WTF?

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Jamie

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Ok so I'm almost 40, have had many partners over the years, one nighters, short liason, married, long term etc. so it's serious double figures yet the girl I'm currently in a relationship with whom I like very much :) has me wondering what's going on... she's silent when we have sex. like totally except for a bit of heavy breathing..

I've had moaners, screamers, dirty mouths and every combination in between, yet never ever someone totally silent.

She says she's very controlled on account of where she normally likes to have sex (outside with the risk of being caught lol) so she does come but says she manages to keep quiet

I'm just a bit thrown by it as I guess noise is feedback lol, you know if you are hitting the right spot etc.. but with her it's just very quiet

so what I'm wondering is this actually normal, or is she simply getting nothing out of the sex we have, which would surprise me as either I've had a lot of great actresses over the years or she's just wired up differently and doesn't get stimulated the same

so girls are you (or do you have any friends that are) virtually silent during sex? if so why?
thanks for the answers so far :) much appreciated

Sally cat.. I don't sex up multiple women.. I wasn't as choosy as I should have been when I was younger.. now I'm VERY picky, do not sleep around and am hoping that this girl I'm with now turns into a serious long term relationship as I really do like her ..hence my concern that she is enjoying sex or not and asking this question!...
yep spoke to her, says she comes very quietly, I noticed one.. (change in breathing and rhythm) but not the other

yep she's holding on tight, hugging, legs wrapped around, and goes on top.. just still very quiet...

I had an ex that couldn't orgasm via penetrative sex yet used to scream the house down during sex ... I guess it's just one end of the scale to the other now and quiet girl is the opposite.
 
Not all girls are the same. When you date many women, you get a variety. She's a quiet one. Either deal with it or move on to the next retard who will date a pig like you who sexes up multiple women.

EDIT: Oh okay. I misunderstood you then I guess. Sorry about that =) ... Well I'm glad you found a girl you really like. But like I said all women are different. It doesn't mean she doesn't enjoy the sex. It just means she's quiet.
 
I don't know, but I hate it when a girl doesn't do something. Tell me, does she just lay there too? If she's not groping or touching you back, she may not be into it.
 
Well, she answered your question. She's used to doing it in public and therefore has to be quiet. She's still quiet because that's what she's used to. Just try to get her to relax and let loose.

I once had a boyfriend that didn't make noise during sex. No grunting, moaning, dirty talk, anything. And on top of that he would always ask me "Why was I being so loud?" I wasn't loud, I was normal lol. Maybe he used to watch porn on mute so no one would hear and now he's confused lmao
 
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