Get the hell out of my life!

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Mr. Smily

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Well heres my situation: I was invited in to this band, the other members were a grade higher then me, and wern't really good. I play drums, I'm amazing for my age, so our band stumbles through 2 weeks of practicing on and off, and two members end up leaving. So the crazy ass bitch singer goes apeshit trying to find more people, she pulls up a guy who can play guitar insane. I ALMOST ended up quitting, today was the day of the dress rehearsal for school, and we sounded like SHIT. So, here I am, one day before the concert, and I walk up to the singer on stage, and tell her I quit, then jump off. Then starts the guilt trip, my brother (who was once telling me to quit) is telling me to rejoin, and I get all this shit about you can't quit on the day before a concert. So I feel like turd, I'm thinking of calling her back and telling her I'm still in the band, but I'm not sure. The last two weeks with that group were a living hell for me... and the new guitar player might quit, then we are fucked anyway.
 
I'm afraid that is something that most likely won't happen....

Well, time for my advice(which got me called an asshat last time...). Does the band suck really bad? If so, don't go back. Unless you enjoy playing with them. If you do enjoy it, just go back for the fun of it. Though, if you told the singer to fuck off, that might not be so fun...
 
you should honor your commitment, then quit if you'd like.
the world doesn't revolve around rob yah know?
maybe these people have worked really hard to get a concert for the band...practiced for a long time to get the courage up to perform in front of others...that kind of thing.
 
if you feel bad about leaving them high and dry, tell them you'll help with the show, and then you're done. you get points for being compassionate, but then singer bitch might think she can guilt you into staying longer. don't. and everything will turn out fine.
 
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