Christopher
New member
Leader [High Society]? My name is Chris, i just turned 19 and I am gay and have meet a 58 year old man.
I have recently met a man of very high stature, and I am really unsure if he is fit for me.
He has held numerous public offices here in the state of Michigan, he has his JD and is a practicing attorney, owns and operates a film production company that has produced many short and independent film, a professor at a University here in Michigan, and he has held several public offices and is a member of various boards and committees here in the community.
We meet for dinner yesterday and it really was a wonderful time and had a tea before going home; It really was a most enthralling experience. I would consider myself to be a cultured person and always seeking to reach higher levels of being in society, and really felt I have reached a new level of society. I come from a middle-class family, and it was ever different experiencing a new, higher prospective on life.
I think he is a very nice man and I would like to see him again. I have always wanted to meet someone who could teach, show, and explore higher levels of life with me, it's what I would consider loving someone. However, I am unsure of this type of relationship would be acceptable to the masses, and I don't know how I could tell my parents.
I just wanted to make something clear, I have known him for many months, actually, perhaps even more then a year, we just never really meet and tried to get to know each other on a personal level. He is a frequent traveler to Europe, and just returned from a 2 weeks visit in Berlin, Germany.
Please note, I am just not seeing this man just to increase my standing in society, but I am attracted to people who can show me new things and add value to what I am. I merely want to experience all that there is in life, and money and such has a direct impact on what one can complete in their existence, and I don't want that to be a problem. He is a very intellectual man and has many things to share, and I just enjoy listening to him speak and explain his life. It makes me most jovial.
My life passions include living a productive life and producing and offering new things to society. I always wanted to be an active and helpful person, and be remember for my good qualities and my life's work. I always fancied the idea of having a position in politics and the financial markets of our world. I always live my life by the motto "Strive for more; there is always something better." I know that may sound a little conceded and makes me sound as if I am unable to appreciate what I have. However, I don't mean it in the sense, but in a sense that I should always be active and explore and always push for what I can become and experience... and because of this, where I am is not odd, but an effect of what I strive for and nothing but a step to what I want to be. It really does seem that if you have goals, and work towards them, you will reach them.
NOTE: He was married to a women, and has just come recently accepted that fact that he is gay. He is almost done with his divorce. I don't think he has ever been with man. Although, he does have a few gay friends, but they are just friends.
I suppose my question is: should I peruse some kind of relationship? He wants to take me to Germany. How do I tell my mother I am going to be going to Germany with my new partner? I can't be leaving my house all the time coming back with new items, clothes, and such.... I would have to tell them, however, I would be scared how they would take the news; friends, too, and even our (or his) social groups.
I have recently met a man of very high stature, and I am really unsure if he is fit for me.
He has held numerous public offices here in the state of Michigan, he has his JD and is a practicing attorney, owns and operates a film production company that has produced many short and independent film, a professor at a University here in Michigan, and he has held several public offices and is a member of various boards and committees here in the community.
We meet for dinner yesterday and it really was a wonderful time and had a tea before going home; It really was a most enthralling experience. I would consider myself to be a cultured person and always seeking to reach higher levels of being in society, and really felt I have reached a new level of society. I come from a middle-class family, and it was ever different experiencing a new, higher prospective on life.
I think he is a very nice man and I would like to see him again. I have always wanted to meet someone who could teach, show, and explore higher levels of life with me, it's what I would consider loving someone. However, I am unsure of this type of relationship would be acceptable to the masses, and I don't know how I could tell my parents.
I just wanted to make something clear, I have known him for many months, actually, perhaps even more then a year, we just never really meet and tried to get to know each other on a personal level. He is a frequent traveler to Europe, and just returned from a 2 weeks visit in Berlin, Germany.
Please note, I am just not seeing this man just to increase my standing in society, but I am attracted to people who can show me new things and add value to what I am. I merely want to experience all that there is in life, and money and such has a direct impact on what one can complete in their existence, and I don't want that to be a problem. He is a very intellectual man and has many things to share, and I just enjoy listening to him speak and explain his life. It makes me most jovial.
My life passions include living a productive life and producing and offering new things to society. I always wanted to be an active and helpful person, and be remember for my good qualities and my life's work. I always fancied the idea of having a position in politics and the financial markets of our world. I always live my life by the motto "Strive for more; there is always something better." I know that may sound a little conceded and makes me sound as if I am unable to appreciate what I have. However, I don't mean it in the sense, but in a sense that I should always be active and explore and always push for what I can become and experience... and because of this, where I am is not odd, but an effect of what I strive for and nothing but a step to what I want to be. It really does seem that if you have goals, and work towards them, you will reach them.
NOTE: He was married to a women, and has just come recently accepted that fact that he is gay. He is almost done with his divorce. I don't think he has ever been with man. Although, he does have a few gay friends, but they are just friends.
I suppose my question is: should I peruse some kind of relationship? He wants to take me to Germany. How do I tell my mother I am going to be going to Germany with my new partner? I can't be leaving my house all the time coming back with new items, clothes, and such.... I would have to tell them, however, I would be scared how they would take the news; friends, too, and even our (or his) social groups.