UPDATE:
So, we got denied the loan, and decided on apartment living to get our rental history up, plus get our credit up to where it needs to be. We do well on our bills, etc, so this shouldn't be a problem.
We found the perfect apartment. It's just the right size, it looks great, the neighborhood is nice enough, and it's close enough to school, shopping, grocery stores, and possible job opportunities for me in the new year.
We put in the applications yesterday afternoon, and they gave us a call this afternoon. We pretty much passed with flying colors to be able to get the apartment, except for ONE MINOR PROBLEM:
3D's old history came back to haunt us again. However, it's not really his fault. When he was processed out of the military, he was rushed, and he didn't even collect his final paycheck from the military, but left it with the intention of it going to the housing authority. Apparently, it never got to them, though, and it's either lost in limbo somewhere, or someone else picked it up for their own pleasure.
Moving on - He owes the housing authority on base a little bit of money, and he got declined to be put on the lease. I would be able to be put on the lease if I had more income. Basically, they need his income, and my credit history.
Blargh.
We're working on getting this settled by Friday though. I really hope so, because a 6x12 room is starting to make me feel claustrophobic.