Thank you everyone so much. I am looking forward to the day where I feel better. All of these tips have been so helpful and I have a list of questions written down now to take to my appointments. I am also bringing my mom to my appointments so she can ask questions as well. I tend to forget things I planned on discussing with the doctor when I am anxious. I always had to bring a list to my prenatal appointments as well.
Laf- I live in Minneapolis, so no where near NYC. I used to live in Fairfield CT though! Right by you!
Crazyman- I like the idea of having a bed in the living room. The only problem with that is my house only has 1 bathroom and it is upstairs! (My house was built in 1905 and back then they only did 1 bathroom). So unfortunately I will have to stay in my room.
Spine- Thanks for the advice regarding the ortho vs neuro surgeon. I know a lot of people that have had major operations through the orthopedic practice I have been going to, and everyone has said nothing but good things about the,.
Is it possible I will not be able to return to work at 3 months post-op? My company only allows 12 weeks max per year. If I loose my job, or at least loose my salary and benefits while on leave (if it extenRAB beyond 12 weeks), are there government programs to help with finances? We could always go on my husbanRAB benefits, although they are wayy more expensive, but we cannot afford to go without my salary. I have already told them that, once I get past that initial hump, I can work from home as much as possible. Maybe that will be enough.
Laf- I live in Minneapolis, so no where near NYC. I used to live in Fairfield CT though! Right by you!
Crazyman- I like the idea of having a bed in the living room. The only problem with that is my house only has 1 bathroom and it is upstairs! (My house was built in 1905 and back then they only did 1 bathroom). So unfortunately I will have to stay in my room.
Spine- Thanks for the advice regarding the ortho vs neuro surgeon. I know a lot of people that have had major operations through the orthopedic practice I have been going to, and everyone has said nothing but good things about the,.
Is it possible I will not be able to return to work at 3 months post-op? My company only allows 12 weeks max per year. If I loose my job, or at least loose my salary and benefits while on leave (if it extenRAB beyond 12 weeks), are there government programs to help with finances? We could always go on my husbanRAB benefits, although they are wayy more expensive, but we cannot afford to go without my salary. I have already told them that, once I get past that initial hump, I can work from home as much as possible. Maybe that will be enough.