Fucking Triangles.

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mybogo100

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Ugh! So, I have liked "Girl A" for the last year or so. Then "Girl B" came into the picture and confessed that she likes girls as well. Eventually, aka just now, I learn that "Girl B" has had a crush on "Girl A" for the last month. "Girl A" is straight, which pisses me off, because I want her really bad, but totally cannot have her, but makes me glad because "Girl B" can't have her either. I came out to "Girl A" the other day, admitting that I did kinda have a crush on her, but kind of lied and said that I liked "Girl B" at the time, but now I think I do like "Girl B," and "Girl B" won't come out because she's not comfortable enough with it yet, and I pretty much asked her out, but she doesn't want to coz she's not comfortable with it, and AHHHH! My fucking head is going to EXPLODE.

Sorry if that was kinda confusing.
UGH. It pisses me off though, because I'm just getting used to accepting who I am in regards to who I like, but what makes it worse for me is that I'm incredibly jealous at heart and they're going away to an out of state university together next year and I'm being left here to rot at a community college. Woe is me? Indeed.
 
Wow, that is a really tricky situation, see what you need now is a Girl C. Then you wouldn't have to worry about those stupid triangles. If you catch my drift.
 
dude, i know exactly what your going through. I'm in the same thing sort of, but not really. I have 7 girls that i know for sure want to go out with me but I want the one that I would have never guessed myself being with for some reason. I mean, she drinks, smokes, does drugs, is always negative, is bisexual, etc... Somehow, I love her to death though because it isn't what the people do that makes you like them, it is who you know they are inside. It just takes time to come to terms with it. and same goes for that girl, it may take her a little time to realize that she likes you back.

and yes my logical thought program is way offline right now because I want to see her so fucking badly. as I would understand you eventually will.

edit: and o yea i a dude by the way, i mean a guy.
 
Wow... Haha, your situation is way more confusing than mine..haha.
Tonight, I was talking to the second girl, and she said that she kind of likes me also, but she's not comfortable enough with it to come out and actually start dating girls or anything. The funny thing is, though, that I asked her out and I don't like her as much as I usually like someone when I ask them out. It's so weird.. I know I'm a forward person like that, but I dont know, I usually like someone to a certain... level? before asking them out. ...Blah, confusion.
 
Yeah, I don't wan't to sound like a rule nazi, but try to edit your posts. Double posting is sort of looked down opon around here.

I wish I had a Girl A and a Girl B, as of now I have a Girl 0.:happysad:

So your doing way better than me.:thumbsup:
 
Eep, did it post twice or something? I hope it didn't :/
I'll watch out for that.
And don't worry, the right Girl whatever will show up sometime.
 
I used to go by SugarSickness on another site. They're my favorite band. Since you're officially cool, I'll read your thread :)

Okay, have you thought that maybe you're projecting your feelings from girl A on to girl B because girl A is unavailable? And because you're unhappy with your relationship with girl A, you want to fill that void with a relationship with girl B?
 
I've thought of that before, and I've also thought that my liking of girl B has been just a result of me finding someone in my immediate surroundings that is a girl that happens to like girls.
Some other people are saying that girl A seems like she could really be bi or a lesbian or something and is just lying about her being straight, and that she actually might have a crush on girl B... which it seems like she does... and that when girl A finds out that girl B is like I am, then she might take action and then girl A and B will start going out and make me feel like crap.
haha... oh, highschool drama!

And I love the smashing pumpkins. I need to find my cd's....hm.
 
Get rid of both of them and start over, they're doing nothing but messing with your head. If there is ever a "girl B" in the first place, that's a sign you need to turn your love pencil over and erase everything.
 
These threads make me sick. You people can fucking CHOOSE who you want to be with. You are complaining about loving 2 people. Seriously, I NEVER get any type of situation like that. You can stop complaining until you have been single for, oh say you entire life
 
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