Fucking kids.
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elinorshiby
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You had an agreement with her. That was she move in and no smoking allowed. She smokes, she's breaking the rules and is totally taking advantage of you...her supposed friend. Seriously, you have the right to kick her out for breech of contract. You did pay for her first month, she should pay that back.
Don't be a doormat and let her walk all over you. Kick her out or fine her for every time you smell smoke and take her to small claims court if she doesn't pay up in a month.
You seem to be afraid of loosing a friendship with her or if anythign not wanting to cause any friction with your friendship with her. What kind of friend is she if she can't simply go outside and smoke when those are the rules you set up? She doesnt' respect you. She may be a nice person to talk to, but she certainly isn't respecting the friendship she has with you. Most people would have kicked her out by now for continuously breaking the rules. She is totally taking advantage of how nice you are. She's assuming you are going to wimp out and not kick her out cause she's nice....and so are you.
Don't be a doormat and let her walk all over you. Kick her out or fine her for every time you smell smoke and take her to small claims court if she doesn't pay up in a month.
You seem to be afraid of loosing a friendship with her or if anythign not wanting to cause any friction with your friendship with her. What kind of friend is she if she can't simply go outside and smoke when those are the rules you set up? She doesnt' respect you. She may be a nice person to talk to, but she certainly isn't respecting the friendship she has with you. Most people would have kicked her out by now for continuously breaking the rules. She is totally taking advantage of how nice you are. She's assuming you are going to wimp out and not kick her out cause she's nice....and so are you.
beagle171717
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beautiful disaster
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Canadian Bacon, this isn't that same girl from FOREVER ago is it? If it is, I'll beat her up for you :]
In any case, she shouldn't get to break your rules. It's your place, isn't it? Enforce the rules.
In any case, she shouldn't get to break your rules. It's your place, isn't it? Enforce the rules.
~Skellington~
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Wow Sugar, long time no talk! Anyways, no it isn't my place. She's in the basement suite at the place I'm living in now.
And yes...same girl.
Eh, I've settled down now. I usually take things pretty easy, but occasionally I snap. Kinda.
I'm good for now. I think.
And yes...same girl.
Eh, I've settled down now. I usually take things pretty easy, but occasionally I snap. Kinda.
I'm good for now. I think.
spytechnician
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Well, I'm not sure what's gonna happen now. Lastnight (Sunday night) she had a few people over...not sure how many. Not sure what drugs they were on, either. Probably E.
They were down there all night. At least they were going outside to smoke. Then again, that was under my window. And of course they'd let the dog out, then they'd have to yell at the dog to come back, whereby waking me up. Then they'd be talking and laughing downstairs, preventing me from falling asleep again quickly.
Surprisingly, I wasn't that tired this morning. I worked the day like normal, and thankfully only started getting tired around four.
When I got home, I cracked a beer like normal. Her car was outside, so I figured I'd sip a couple beer before I went down to tell her off. At one point she texted me asking if she could borrow a movie. I said no, and she spazzed. Kinda. I expected her to pound up the stairs, but she didn't.
So then I went down, sat down for a bit. She had her boyfriend over, still. He's a wuss, and would never bother me. Screwed up his brain on drugs a few years ago. So after sitting and watching some of a Scream movie, I got up to leave, and said "So what happened lastnight?"
It was quiet for a few seconds. So I said "You had a few people over. All night. Even until after I left this morning."
Still no reply. "Well, it won't happen again," I said as I turned to leave. All I heard was "Go fuck yourself Bracham" as I walked away. I chuckled to myself and retorted "Well have fun payin' next month's rent!"
She texted me a bit later and said "Sorry man no hard feelings". Uh huh. Probably just realized that she'll need help with the rent, again.
I'm gonna talk to her again yet tonight...but she better smarten up. Pretty fucking quick. Wouldn't hurt to lose that idiot boyfriend, either.
They were down there all night. At least they were going outside to smoke. Then again, that was under my window. And of course they'd let the dog out, then they'd have to yell at the dog to come back, whereby waking me up. Then they'd be talking and laughing downstairs, preventing me from falling asleep again quickly.
Surprisingly, I wasn't that tired this morning. I worked the day like normal, and thankfully only started getting tired around four.
When I got home, I cracked a beer like normal. Her car was outside, so I figured I'd sip a couple beer before I went down to tell her off. At one point she texted me asking if she could borrow a movie. I said no, and she spazzed. Kinda. I expected her to pound up the stairs, but she didn't.
So then I went down, sat down for a bit. She had her boyfriend over, still. He's a wuss, and would never bother me. Screwed up his brain on drugs a few years ago. So after sitting and watching some of a Scream movie, I got up to leave, and said "So what happened lastnight?"
It was quiet for a few seconds. So I said "You had a few people over. All night. Even until after I left this morning."
Still no reply. "Well, it won't happen again," I said as I turned to leave. All I heard was "Go fuck yourself Bracham" as I walked away. I chuckled to myself and retorted "Well have fun payin' next month's rent!"
She texted me a bit later and said "Sorry man no hard feelings". Uh huh. Probably just realized that she'll need help with the rent, again.
I'm gonna talk to her again yet tonight...but she better smarten up. Pretty fucking quick. Wouldn't hurt to lose that idiot boyfriend, either.
Heh. I used to have one hell of a temper. I damn near seriously injured a couple of my brothers, even before I was in my teens.
Partway through my teens, I realized I had to get control of myself. So maybe now I'm over-compensating, and just being too nice.
But, at least for the most part, I try not to be nicer than I can afford.
I just wish she would straighten the fuck up. I don't mind occasional pot smoking. But I don't agree with any other drugs. And even though I drink a fair amount, I don't agree with drinking to the point where it affects your work. Sure, I may even sip beer until midnight or so. But I'd most likely be up until then whether or not I had beer. Cuz I'm an evening person.
Anyways. I'm out pretty quick. Goodnight.
Partway through my teens, I realized I had to get control of myself. So maybe now I'm over-compensating, and just being too nice.
But, at least for the most part, I try not to be nicer than I can afford.
I just wish she would straighten the fuck up. I don't mind occasional pot smoking. But I don't agree with any other drugs. And even though I drink a fair amount, I don't agree with drinking to the point where it affects your work. Sure, I may even sip beer until midnight or so. But I'd most likely be up until then whether or not I had beer. Cuz I'm an evening person.
Anyways. I'm out pretty quick. Goodnight.
kurious kat
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She needs to learn that sorry does not always work. You should still make her pay the rent. She's walked all over you long enough. Now it's time to be responsible and pay her own way. You are not responsible for her nor are you her father, so she needs to pay or get out.
How much longer are you going to put up with this crap from her? Are you waiting to blow a casket? That's should be interesting! Seriously, tell her to shape up or ship the fuck out. You don't need this and she's not learning anything other than, if you take advantage of the right friend, you get everything you want as long as you want. Not a great lesson to learn.
How much longer are you going to put up with this crap from her? Are you waiting to blow a casket? That's should be interesting! Seriously, tell her to shape up or ship the fuck out. You don't need this and she's not learning anything other than, if you take advantage of the right friend, you get everything you want as long as you want. Not a great lesson to learn.
wilsonsdad2003
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I agree, up until last week I was such an asshole! Now that I turned 20, it's TIES, COFFEE, BRIEFCASES, and RESPONSIBILITY young man RESPONSIBILITY.
Carry on. In my experience (having loaned two people a semi-substantial amount of money) it's just a bad idea.
Carry on. In my experience (having loaned two people a semi-substantial amount of money) it's just a bad idea.
nothing special
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Eh. Sorry you can't understand generalizations. Or I mean, sarcastic generalizations.
BTW, I realize you were being sarcastic. I think. lol
BTW, I realize you were being sarcastic. I think. lol