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banano008

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I just got off the phone with my girlfriend. As soon as she said hello, I knew something wrong. I've heard that voice before, and I knew she was holding back tears. Well, she just got home from the hospital, she was bleeding.. and cramping. The diagnosis is, she miscarried. The baby is gone, and I hurt. She hurts too. I personally couldn't hold back my tears, and I felt like such a baby for it. It was no secret that I wanted this, and she had let me know that she was leaning towards completing the pregnancy.. now it's gone. :bawling:

I should be with her now, but I'm stuck at work, locked in my office with tears rolling down my cheeks. I can't face anybody now, and I don't know how to deal with this..
 
I'm really sorry to hear that ninja. I dont know what to say, but i hope you and your gilfriend feel better.
 
I would suggesting after you get off work, going home and just holding her. I have helped a lot of my friends through miscarrages. I can't say anyhting to make it better, but I know it sucks.
 
That's messed up. I had a friend have a misscarriage in the middle of bandclass. That was terrible. I felt misery the whole entire day. I wanna make it better but I suck at sympathy. *pet pet*
 
Well, thanks guys. I don't plan on going all :emo: but this feels like a kick in the nuts to me. I have no choice but to keep my head up and carry on, but I'm not sure I can go on like nothing happened. I've seen a lot of change in the last few months, I viewed the pregnancy as a change for the better. Guess it's time for the rollercoaster to start it's trip back down.
 
So sorry to hear this, HappyNinja. Poor girl is going to have even more psychological issues to deal with now. I hope you two are able to work together to get through this tough time. :hug2:
 
I'm pretty sure we'll be fine. I love her to death, and I don't blame her. She's just as distraught as I am.

Needless to say, this threw a monkeywrench into my quitting smoking idea. Quit yesterday, lit back up on my way to work. God, I'm weak.
 
my most sincere sympathies man, that's quite a blow to have to take. there's no shame in tears, especially for a loss such as this. if there's anything i can do to help, please let me know.
 
I think in light of the circumstances the smoking thing could probably slide for a while . I am sorry for your loss that truly sucks . I hope you and her will be well soon .
 
I'm very sorry to hear that Ninja, Unfortunately the first couple pregnencies for women end up to be miscarriages (in most women)
I was hoping it didn't happen with you guys.

I wish you and your girlfriend the best, and when things get a little less shakey you'll have little feet running round before you know it..

Ninja stay strong! and Good Luck.
 
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