Frustrated because my husband is obsessed with sex?

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We have been married for 3 years now. My daughter is turning 1 tomorrow. The thing is my husband is totally obsessed with sex. It is to the point where he is researching different positions and bought the Kama Sutra for me as an anniversary gift. When i got it I almost had a fit. He thinks that there is something missing in our sex live and according to me there is nothing wrong. I'm at the point where if he starts initiating sex, i just want to punch him in the groin so that he can leave me alone. I'm a very conservative person and feel uncomfortable with all his kinky ideas.

Is there anybody that can give me some advice?
To Berry: If you don't like the topic, don't answer the question...
 
compromise to something but nothing that makes you feel ill but also try to see if you can meet his needs to in a way your both comfortable
guy usually do have higher sex needs lol so do not be to hard on him
 
I agree with ebert in a way..just try to get the most out of it as you can...sex flys south at a point..just tell him you want to take it by steps instead of rushing..try a new position in see if you like it,but keep it going with that same one for a bit until you are sick of it.
 
Well if he's bugging you all the time he is obviously frustrated! Men tend to have very high sex drives as they get older. This could lead to him cheating if you keep pushing him away. You need to tell him all this and to stop treating you as if your his sex toy! Your not! But you have to be honest about this because it really wont stop until you do. Good luck X
 
It seems that you are more than conservative.
Let loose and try new positions, get kinky.
Hey it is a give and take relationship. Or he will leave
 
Slide up and down on his ridiculous pole.
You won't be able to once your kid gets older, so boost your whorish self esteem as much as you can now.
 
Well I understand where you are coming from however you have to understand that you are now married and sex is definitely a great part of a healthy relationship. To me it seems that you both are at the two opposite ends. One is obsessive and the other is completely trying to ignore it. Nevertheless whatever the reason is the best advise that I can give here is that you should speak to him about this matter and let him know how you feel. I am sure being a loving husband he will certainly understand you. One great piece of advise here is that neither of you two should go to one extreme otherwise there is a chance of misunderstanding and perhaps hurt feelings.
 
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